19 and 20-year-old bio sisters abandon their 9-year-old stepsister, mom gets tough love from her sister about it: “If you hadn’t lied to your daughter, then maybe she wouldn’t be hurting”

Hey there ladies and gentlemen of the internet. When it comes to family life, there's a certain level of compassion, softness, and empathy that needs to be the first and foremost reaction to any situation with your children. Children are delicate, and being harsh with them at a young age will only make them recoil into themselves, or lash out in ways that won't help them as adults. There's no formula for being the best parent, and there's not even a decent way to gauge how you're doing as a parent. When your kids are young, they probably either hate your guts, or they love you so much and so blindly. If only there was an objective way to measure how one's doing as a parent that isn't reliant on human flaws or their opinions. Like a questionnaire for children and parents. Entrepreneurs of the world, here's your next app idea.

In the story below, the protagonist is a woman who had to deliver some harsh love and parenting advice to her sister. Her sister has a 9-year-old daughter, and two older adult stepdaughters. She was under the delusion that her stepchildren would take her 9-year-old under their wing and play older sisters. Well, the mom was in for a wake up call when her stepdaughters didn't want to have anything to do with their decade younger stepsister. Read the full story below for all the juicy details.

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AITA for telling my sister if she hadn't lied to her daughter then her daughter wouldn't be hurting?

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Think about a world in which we could actually test our parenting abilities in real time. It obviously can't be through asking a child or adolescent how they feel about their parent, but it could be through some sort of series of questions on how they're treated, raised, or what their attachment styles are like.
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