Younger brother refuses to be his chronically late 24-year-old sister's personal driver any longer, tells her he’ll leave without her if she’s late again: ‘She made me feel like I was just some better public transport for her’

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  • AITA for wanting my sister to learn about consequences

    ΤΑΧΙ "The big problem for me is that she is always late"
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  • Hello, I (M22) have been driving my sister (F24, who doesnt want to drive because she "doesnt need it") almost everywhere
  • thusfar. Whenever she needs something, she will always let me a maximum of 2 days prior, even when she herself has known it for much longer. Some rides only
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  • take about 40 mins total, but others take up at least 6 hours of my day. I usually try to make it work, because she is my sister.
  • The big problem for me is that she is always late. Whenever we settle on a time, she always ends up being late. I always send her a
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  • reminder at the day itself when III be there, and even call her 5 minutes before arriving. Despite that she is always late. At the last
  • instance, earlier this week, I told her that my gf had a pretty important meeting so we were tight on time. Despite mentioning it she still ended up being late.
  • Tonight, she messaged me again, asking if she could drive along to the family gathering next week, I told her that it is fine, as long as
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  • she is on time. She responded saying that I always mention it and I dont have to waste my energy sending a message
  • because she will be on time (as she always says). The way she told me that made me feel like I was
  • just some better public transport for her, and to help her view I told her that if she is late, III leave without her this time.
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  • AITA for planning on going to the gathering without her if she is late?
  • Select-Anxiety-1557 YTA to continuing to give in and putting yourself in this position. Grow a spine and say no to her.
  • FarmerDave 13 Set the time. Leave then. If she doesn't have her in a group, I guess she misses out.
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  • And let her know the next time she is late it will be the last ride she ever gets.
  • zyzmog NTA She's old enough to buy her own car. Or do ridesharing. Or figure out her own alternate transportation.

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