21-year-old girlfriend wants 22-year-old boyfriend to kick his "freeloading" 17-year-old brother out of his house so that she can move in and freeload: 'He is just a kid and I [am] his legal guardian'

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    "AITAH for refusing to kick my little brother (17m) out of my place at my girlfriend’s request so she (21f) would feel better about moving in with me (22m)?"

    I (22m) have been taking care of my little brother (17m) for just over two years since our dad d d (our mom dd a few years before that). Both had very bad health. He lives with me and goes to the local hs by my apartment. He had to switch high schools to the one close to where I stay bc my parents were in a different area and he works whenever he is not in school (he works TWO part time jobs during the
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    school year and works full time throughout the summer) bc even though I took him in he has a lot of expenses (I just can't afford to cover it all) and wants to save up for the coming years. He shouldn't be in this boat at all but that's life. He is so young. Life has been very unfair to him. and he is a really good kid. I have been dating my gf for just over a year. She wants to move in and not contribute to the household expenses bc I shouldn't
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    charge her rent bc she is not a tenant. and I am not a landlord but we are boyfriend and girlfriend and I should be happy my girlfriend wants to move in with me (and I guess not contribute anything to the household expenses bc she sees it as me charging her rent). She also wants me to tell my brother to leave so we can have the space to ourselves and she can have more space. She has referred to him as a "freeloader" even though he is just a kid and I got myself to become his legal guardian. I to
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    Snackinpenguin He's your bro, underage and he's hustling to pay his way. You also said you're the legal guardian so you'd be an a now. turfing him out Girl is wanting to play home... on your dime. Do you really see a future with this girl?
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    Platypus_Neither I think I should break up with her over just suggesting this You absolutely should. Go back and read what you typed out. Read it several times. See how much of a jealous hypocritical gold digging POS your GF is? If you stay with this woman, and more importantly, do as she asks. Then you are just a massive POS as well.
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    No_Alfalfa_9541 As a woman- ditch her! She literally thinks her living in your house is a blessing on you, and she has no need to contribute. While calling your brother a freeloader! Shes trash.
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    The_Bad_Agent NTA Leaving your brother out of the equation, your GF is a deadbeat. Ditch her for that alone. With your brother IN the equation... your GF is an entitled monster.
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    yakamax27 Id throw your gf down a well personally. But you do you.
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    Few-Masterpiece-1804 NTA. Your gf is a major AH. She sounds extremely self-centered and lacking in compassion. Break up with her.
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    7625607 NTA Your girlfriend wants to freeload off you. Do not let her move in. She will use you for every penny you earn. Take care of yourself and your brother.
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