Wife demands her best friend Sarah join the romantic Bali anniversary trip her husband spent months planning and saving for: ‘My wife insists having Sarah with us is the "only solution"’

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  • I (32M) planned a surprise 5-year anniversary trip for my wife (30F) to Bali. Booked a private villa, couples massages, sunset dinner cruises - the whole romantic package.
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  • AITA for not taking my wife's best friend on our romantic vacation?

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  • When I revealed the surprise, my wife was thrilled but immediately asked if her best friend Sarah (31F) could join us.
  • Apparently Sarah just went through a bad breakup and "needs to get away."
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  • I explained this was meant to be a romantic trip for just us. My wife got upset saying I'm
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  • being selfish since we "have plenty of money" and could easily upgrade to a 2-bedroom villa.
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  • I make good money but I specifically saved for this romantic getaway. I offered to help Sarah book a separate vacation
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  • or even pay for her therapy sessions, but my wife insists having Sarah with us is the "only solution."
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  • Now my wife is barely speaking to me and Sarah keeps sending passive- aggressive texts about "being excluded when I need support most."
  • Like... the f?
  • oreocerealluvr NTA but your wife is
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  • kwaalude I'd cancel the trip entirely. That's some serious disrespect and completely beyond the pail. You should show this post to your wife too. She'll get no support bc she doesn't deserve it and her request is insane.
  • Puzzleheaded_Bet3 Nta funny how it's "we" make good money. Sarah could pay for her own vacation
  • GoddessfromCyprus NTA, has your wife never her of the phrase 'two's company, three's a crowd'? Remind her. Cancel the getaway, if she persists.
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  • Ok_Play2364 How is tagging along on a couples trip, to a romantic island, where there will likely be nothing but other couples, going to make someone who just got dumped, feel better? Take a buddy. Leave wifey home to console her friend
  • Worldly_Instance_7 NTA. Your wife wants to go on a romantic vacation with Sarah, not you.

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