'I feel like a grandmother': Brand new cat mom repeatedly brings her newborn kittens to her human, rolling over and purring, no matter how comfortable her own bed is, and the internet reassures her that it's a actually compliment

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    "Why does my cat keep bringing me her kittens?"

    "I keep waking up to her and the kittens in my bed right behind me"
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    So recently the cat distribution system decided to bless me with a pregnant stray cat but for her health | took her to the vet to confirm and also have her checked. I knew she didn't have owners since I had been seeing her outside for a while but couldn't catch her and everybody claimed she wasn't theirs so I fostered her, but a few days ago she had them in my bed.
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    She did have her own room since I was told cats wanted peace and quiet when they give birth, it also had a big bed for a comfy birth. I was a little upset when she gave birth on my bed and cried a little ③, but I let her finish and nurse until she left to get some food then I put gloves on and moved the kittens to her bed and I also moved her food and water bowl to the room they were in so she could see them.
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    I did buy another mattress, I know I could've cleaned it but I couldn't stomach the thought. Anyways since she gave birth she has been very clingy and has moved her babies from her room to mines, even if I'm on the couch she'll move them where I am and lay on my lap purring and rolling over.
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    She's a little fat so I try to make sure she doesnt fall lol. I was a little concerned because a friend of mine told me she might not be comfortable in her room and that's the last thing I wanted. Before she gave birth I did my best making sure the room was warm, clean, safe, and quiet, but she prefers to keep them by me.
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    Since then I moved her belongs, herself and her kittens into my room and she seems more fond of it, but she still puts them beside me on my bed and lays with us (I feel like a grandmother ), but I'm curious why she does this and for the safety of the kittens I want to try to stop it because i keep waking up to her and the kittens in my bed right behind me and I'm a wild sleeper
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    llamaintheroom She knows you're a safe haven! It's actually a compliment when they do this. She wants your help taking care of them :) some cats may want privacy but she obviously doesn't. I would let her do this when you're awake, it'll help her mentally. During sleeping periods maybe close the door to your room?
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    Obligatory- please get her and babies fixed asap! There are (probably) low cast spay and neuter options near you. I volunteer at a shelter and so many of them are overfilled w kittens Good luck cat grandma haha
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    Pale_Instance3256 OP Im glad you spoke about fixing/spaying as well I feel like that is something that should definitely be spoken about more and I do plan on getting her spayed. ☑☑
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    echobuddy How long ago did she have her kittens?
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    Pale_Instance3256 OP 5 days ago
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    Available-Meat-5477 For keeping the babies safe while you're thrashing around in your sleep, is there a way to make a flat empty surface near your head like a large nightstand or maybe drag over a plastic bin or chair to the side of the bed? You could put down a towel or better yet a cardboard box/cat bed with shallow raised sides to keep the lil ones from rolling or climbing out. That way mama can rest with them or you and keep you both in proximity with no one getting rolled onto at night. Con
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    Pale_Instance3256 OP She's in my room currently and before I sleep I do place her kittens in her cat bed that's beside my bed but would wake up to her laying behind me feeding or sleeping someone suggested a weighted blanket though.
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    dang3rk1ds Awww she loves you and trusts you enough to bring them to you
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    Zadojla Feral cats often live in colonies. It is common for a mother cat to leave her kittens in the care of a sister or friend when she wants to hunt for food. It's a reciprocal relationship.
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    Regular-Humor-9128 She wants to be with you but wants her babies in sight too! She loves you so much and feels very safe with you! Thank you for taking her in and helping her!!!!

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