'So I left 10 cents': Resort custodian gets passive-aggressively called out about tipping a fellow resort employee, then matches the bartender's energy afterwards by deliberately leaving lousy tips

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  • "Don't guilt-trip the janitor; we've seen too much"> CAUTIO WET FLOO
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  • "Got guilt-tripped over a tip, so I left 10 cents instead."

    I work in custodial at a resort. I clean puke, sh in both " guest and employee bathrooms, including the ones the bar staff use. One day after work, I went to the resort bar (not a sit-down
  • place) and bought a $9 premade drink. The bartender just poured it over ice with a bit of oat milk. I didn't tip, I usually don't for counter service, especially when the food/drinks are already overpriced.
  • As I was waiting, I saw her glance at the receipt, then she turned to me and said, "What department are you in?" I said I work in cleaning. Then she hit me with: "Well it's really important to tip because it goes around."
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  • I was honestly shocked. It felt super passive-aggressive and like she was calling me out. I didn't even order food, just a drink she poured from a bottle. I don't
  • believe tipping should be treated like an obligation especially when I do some of the dirtiest work at the resort and don't get tips myself.
  • So later that same day, I went back and ordered another drink and this time, I tipped exactly $0.10. Not out of malice, but just to make a point. If you're going to shame me for not tipping, I'll still tip, but on my terms.
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  • Ever since then, she's been cold toward me and avoids talking to me. But I have no regrets. Don't guilt-trip the janitor; we've seen too much.
  • mqueef I would never have a coworker tip me. I would feel guilty even letting them pay for the drink. She is a poor sad b.
  • Lone-flamingo It goes around? What, like she'll give you a tip for cleaning up after her? Will she dirty things up less if you tip her better? What does that even mean?
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  • nbajads ⚫ She shouldn't expect tips from co-workers. And if she wouldn't show that attitude toward a resort guest who didn't tip her then she shouldn't be showing it to you.
  • Ydain Ask her why you're not getting a tip every time she uses the bathroom. Give her dirty looks every time you see her in one.
  • Gean-canach. When i worked as a bartender I never accepted tips from back of house. If anything i bought their drinks. I saw how hard all ye folks work for sh
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  • _wildwing_ If it were me, next time I clean the bathroom nearest her I'd walk up and hold my hand out. When she asks why, I'd tell her "I'm waiting for my tip for cleaning your bathroom."
  • Dopper33 Even that 10 cents is generous, I'd tell her the tip is she has a clean bathroom to use
  • Meincornwall After they pick the coin up.... You'd never guess where I found that.
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