44-year-old man and his son move in with younger girlfriend, refuses to pay rent or groceries, offering to contribute only $400 to utilities, while she is left with a $2000 mortgage: 'I am paycheck to paycheck and feeling like he is using me'

What are the signs? Those little red flags that appear in the corner of our eyes, yet we subconsciously choose to ignore in the name of love.

We would never dare to believe that our loving and committed partner could be using us for their own selfish benefits. It just wouldn't add up, right? They're just so attentive, okay, they have just moved into our place with their son, and we are still paying the rent and the groceries, and the utilities. But that's just for now! They promised they would start contributing… However, that was 3 months ago.

But, no…! They are definitely not using us, are they? What's even stranger is that we do live paycheck to paycheck, and they do earn almost double our salary and still don't pay much, but we're sure they're just saving up for our future together…They're also almost a decade older than us, but age shouldn't define responsibility…should it? 

Something feels off here, I'm not quite sure what. 

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