26-year-old pregnant woman demands naming daughter after her late childhood dog, 31-year-old husband refuses, claiming it will negatively impact their child in the long-run: 'I'd be weirded out if I were named after a dog'

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    Pregnant woman writing down a list of baby names
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    WIBTA for refusing to name my child after my wife's dec***ed dog?

    I, 31M, am expecting my first kid with my wife of 2 years, 26F. We have been together for 3.5 years. We met at a bar and instantly
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    clicked. She has always wanted to be a mom and considers herself a 'maternal' person. She is 6 months pregnant and it has been
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    an easy pregnancy. We both have relatively established jobs and make well above our means. We both have debt remaining from
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    school, but we make our payments on time etc. All of this is to say that our relationship is stable and developed and there
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    aren't really any external problems. Our families love each other, we have friends separate from each other, and everything is healthy.
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    We have one problem though. She is absolutely de d set on naming our kid after her dec ed dog from when she was
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    a child. I honestly think this is really strange. We are having a girl and the name isn't a 'human' name (in my opinion). I don't
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    want to say exactly what it is but it's pretty similar to Lucky. I feel uncomfortable about naming our daughter a dog name. I don't
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    think that dogs lives are less valuable than human lives, however our daughter is going to have a life beyond us. I would be
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    weirded out if I were named after a dog. I don't know how to approach this subject with my wife because she has wanted to
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    name her future child after her childhood dog since she was a teenager. WIBTA if I refused to name our kid after her dog? I
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    Cute little child playing with a small dog in the garden
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    don't want a blow up fight over this but I feel like this will affect our future child in the long term.
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    Comfortable_Stop_717 NTA. But, maybe it's not bad enough to not be a middle name?
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    Individual_Ad_9213 Since OP is being vague, I'm not sure how to rule because I think that it all depends on the actual name. If it's something like Joy, it might fly. I'm not sure what sort of a dog's name is remotely close to Lucky; but I do know a least one man whose nickname is Lucky.
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    Crazyandiloveit I think you will be TA if you don't have thar conversation with your wife. You will be a parent soon and you'll have to advocate for your baby when you think it's necessary, even against your wife (this can be done polite/ gentle obviously).
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    Loving Wisdom NTA. Naming a child requires a yes from both parents. If you aren't on board with naming your child something that's the end of it. You both need to work together and come up with something together.
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    whatsername235 Would you rather kick back now or explain to Rover how you got the name?
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    NTA. There are dog names and human names. If it's is truly a dog name, you need to have this conversation. It's also incredibly unhealthy for someone to that attached to a pet name from so long ago. Your kid deserves their own name
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    Big-Fig3260 NTA. Wow, my husband and I are both veterinarians and thus pretty eccentric about our animals. Our pets have human names much of the time. And we would NEVER, EVER name one of our children after a pet. That's just insane.
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    Gold_Birthday_5803 In my family, people name their pets after one another. We think it's funny.

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