‘She’s fun, but she can get a little too wild at parties’: Pool party guest Maya pushes a guest in fully dressed, ignoring the rules, causing embarrassment and a ruined phone, and gets kicked out for crossing the line

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  • AITA for kicking my friend out of my pool party after she pushed someone in?

    group dancing at a party around an empty pool
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  • I (29F) hosted a pool party last weekend. It was a mix of close friends, coworkers, and my boyfriend's buddies.
  • I made it clear in the group chat beforehand: *no pushing people into the pool* not everyone was bringing swimsuits, and I didn't want anyone's phone or electronics ruined.
  • Enter "Maya" (31F), a friend I've known for years. She's fun, but she can get a little too wild at parties.
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  • group of people sitting next to a pool
  • About an hour in, everyone's hanging out, eating, chatting. Out of nowhere, Maya sneaks up behind my coworker (who was in a sundress and holding her phone) and shoves her into the pool.
  • The phone? De d. The coworker? Humiliated she didn't even bring extra clothes.
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  • I immediately told Maya that was completely out of line and asked her to leave. She laughed at first, thinking I was joking, but I was serious.
  • She got offended and said I was "overreacting" and killing the vibe. Some people at the party thought I was too harsh since it was just a joke" and "phones can be replaced.
  • big group of people in and around a pool by the beach at sunset
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  • Maya hasn't spoken to me since, and a couple of mutual friends are saying I ruined the party energy by making a scene.
  • But I feel like I set a clear boundary, she ignored it, and someone got hurt and lost a phone.
  • AITA for kicking her out?
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