‘I have the money, I decide where it goes’: Life-changing jackpot winner plans generous shares for family until a sister-in-law starts demanding a cut

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  • AITA for refusing to share in a life changing win?

    man with his hand on his forhead with disbelief looking at a computer screen
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  • To jump right into it, I (m28) won a SIGNIFICANT and life changing amount of money.
  • Enough where I would never have to think about work again and enough even for my family.
  • My family includes: both my parents, my sister and her partner as well as my brother and his partner,
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  • Can't make everyone happy

    a group of people sitting next to each other, each with a paper bag over they're head, on each bag there's a "smiley face" with a different emotion. some sad, some, neutral and one happy.
  • as well as an array of niece and nephews. I also consider my mums best friend as part of the family.
  • My intention was to share most of it, my parents could retire and live very comfortably and portions for my siblings families
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  • and some set aside for my nieces and nephews future and some for my mums best friend.
  • To the story: I organised for everyone to come to the house, have food and some drinks and go over what my plan was.
  • man with his hand on his forhead with disbelief looking at a computer screen
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  • As people arrive, everyone says congratulations how happy they are and generally just being nice without expectation.
  • My siblings have always been wealthier than me, own their own businesses etc. Then my brother and his family arrives
  • and before I could say hi, my sister in law says "how much you giving us then?"
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  • To say the least I was angry, regardless of whether I was sharing or not, this was my money.
  • As the evening went on, it kind of festered in me a bit and when we got to the discussion of what's happening with the money
  • I said "I have set aside XXXXXX amount to the nieces and nephews as well as XXXXXX to each of you apart from SIL".
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  • Now there was some shock, my dad thinks that I was completely in the right, I have the money I decide where it goes.
  • My mum on the other hand thinks because my BIL got his own share, my SIL should too.
  • For me, I can't stand entitlement and how she presumed she was to receive something even though I hadn't said I was sharing.
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  • So AITA? Was I petty? They still have a life changing amount from my brothers share, but my brother won't get involved with the matter.

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