Intern with memory issues outsmarts toxic manager after she asks him to memorize and recite every detail of client interactions, turns tables by presenting every unnecessary detail of his day, forcing HR to intervene: 'They agreed it wasn’t sustainable'

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    Employee presenting a report
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    Report everything that happens on these files - or else. Okay then...I will

    Ok I will get this right this time. 10 y ago. I worked under a manager who could best be described as old- school old- battleaxe.
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    It was an hr office (I do not work in hr anymore and this is probably why).
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    I was an intern starting a white collar hr corporate job after 10 y of blue collar work.
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    I was excited to be in a climate controlled office. I dreamed for years for this and put myself through university by my bootstrap.
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    I would do anything for air conditioned office. I just broke my back a year prior and had a difficult time finishing my final year.
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    She was known across the office for being impossible to please and for running through staff faster than the copier toner.
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    Nobody lasted more than a year, I was told. From my first day, I was on her radar.
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    I make occasional typing mistakes because of medication I was on that affects short-term memory. I always ran spellcheck and proofed my work carefully, but she treated every minor error like a personal failure.
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    She would scold me for the smallest things. Once she gave me an hour- long lecture about professionalism because I wore a blue shirt instead of a white one.
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    I wore a sweater to a client meeting because their thermostat was broken and it was -20c outside.
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    I got shouted at by my supervisor for wearing the sweater harder than I did on any work site.
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    Every day felt like inhaling glass shards. Then came the instruction that broke the camel's back.
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    She told me I needed to deliver a daily oral report on every client file | managed.
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    Colleagues listening in a meeting
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    These weren't short updates. She expected me to know every number, every email, every call from memory.
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    Word for word what was said. If i even got one word out of the transcript off..
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    i was not fit to be there. She said, "From the moment the sun rises on this office to the moment it sets, you are to report everything that happens in these reports" She knew I had a memory-related disability from a past concussion.
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    She knew it would overwhelm me. So decided to take her words literally. That night, I opened Excel and began logging everything.
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    Every keystroke. I wrote it all down. I even practiced my delivery so I could recite it perfectly.
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    The next morning, when she called me into her office, I began: "Walked from my car to the building.
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    Opened the office door with my right hand, moderate pressure. Entered the building. Greeted the receptionist.
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    Employee walking into the office
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    Made a coffe in the keurig for 25 seconds. Sat at my desk. Adjusted my chair.
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    Started computer. Open excel. Began typing reports, ensuring keyboard sound remained within acceptable volume to avoid disturbing senior management arriving 45 minutes after 9am...." I continued like that for almost the entire hour A UNinterrupted.
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    She tried to interrupt, but I reminded her gently that I was "reporting everything that happens..." When it was over, she just stared at me.
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    A week later, HR called me in (yes HR does have its own HR). I explained the situation exactly as it happened, that I was following her directive word for word.
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    I had detailed documentation (by this time I wrote down EVERYTHING that happened in that office).
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    They agreed it wasn't sustainable. Within a month, I was transferred to a new department. I was laid off 3 m later because that boss quit but I got a good reference.
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    _Kramerica_ It always baffles me that companies would rather keep the problematic employee instead of taking a step back and wondering if insane turnover for a specific position working with a specific person was maybe detrimental to the company. Hmmm
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    OP AeonFinance Yeah I have wondered that my whole career..
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    wolfgang784 Can't say for certain here, but when the offender is reaaaalllyy bad and somehow not fired it almost always comes down to being family or friends with the decision makers. One or the other is enough.
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    OP AeonFinance The Peter principle
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    One-Cute-Boy What do the different colors of collar mean?
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    OP AeonFinance We used to wear clothing that symbolized these colors. Actually I used to wear orange becauss that was the color of the material you got on reflective coats and shirts and stuff but yeah
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    usrhome How hard is it to capitalize "HR"?
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    OP AeonFinance You sound like you work in HR

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