Employee is fired for refusing to work off the clock, accused of not acting like 'family': 'No severance. No warning. Just out'

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  • A woman gets fired by two other women.
  • Just got fired for refusing to work off the clock. My crime? Not being "family" enough.

    Been at this marketing firm for 8 months. Manager loves the whole "we're a family here" speech whenever she needs free labor. Last week she asked me to finish a presentation after my shift. I said no. She hit me with "I thought we were a team" and how it's "important for the company." I told her if it's that important, pay me overtime.
  • She looked genuinely shocked. Said I was being "difficult" and "not a team player." Then the classic boomer line: "when I was your age, I stayed late all the time to prove myself." I replied "that's why you're still here and I'm planning my exit strategy."
  • She went quiet. Whole week she's been cold as hell. Then Friday comes and HR calls me in. They're "letting me go" for "cultural fit issues." No severance. No warning. Just out.
  • They can keep their toxic "family." I'm filing for unemployment and never looking back. Fuck corporate America and their manipulation tactics. Anyone else get canned for having boundaries?
  • Commenters chimed in with their own stories.

    DungeonMat · 1d ago That "we're a family" line is such a red flag. Real families don't fire you for having boundaries. Good riddance honestly, you dodged a bullet long term.
  • Sesoru • 1d ago I would contact the labor board and say you got fired for retaliation and that they are trying to wagetheft workers. That's a huge deal in a lot of states, and messed up.
  • A young woman sits in front of her bosses.
  • PersonaNonGrataM... • 1d ago It's always "we're a family" until you ask for some flexibility for an appointment or a family event. Then suddenly it's all about the money and the time.
  • D-Laz • 1d ago I had been working a job for 5 years and was training a guy fresh out of school. He mentioned that he got a raise because out job code had a minimum payment and he was under that. I asked how much and it was 6¢ less than what I made. I asked for a
  • raise and within a few weeks my manager got together with my supervisor and HR to interview my coworkers on my code of conduct violations. Coworkers didn't say anything and were told to not tell me, which was also against policy. They did end up writing me up for some BS and I quit a week later.
  • After she wrote me up she goes "we would normally fire someone for doing this, we have a zero tolerance policy, but you are a hard worker so we will just give you a final written warning." Fuck her she just wanted to use that write-up to justify lower performance evaluations moving forward.
  • . Nepalus • 1d ago Whenever I got asked to work over normal working hours I would just remember how long that was and "claw back" time. If you're smart, its extremely easy to do. Also it depends on the project. If I don't know the deadlines I always ask my
  • manager when the deck is going to be presented. If it isn't tomorrow, I tell them in very polite and professional terms that they can wait until tomorrow because I'm not wasting what little of my day remains just so I can give them some cushion for themselves so they can leisurely review the deck. Then probably forget and review it last minute and have me on the hook for yet another late night session fixing it.
  • Next thing would be is if you didn't have any advance notice of when we're going to need the deck ready. If this is the case, I would say I made. prior commitments that night because it wasn't communicated that the deck was going to be needed until the very end of the day. Make
  • it a big deal. Make shit up. Make it seem like this is the biggest fucking favor they've ever received in their professional career. Fake call people in the office, if you want extra points get a friend to yell randomly in a phone call. That one got me out of some shit grunt work in my second job once. The idea
  • would be that they would either back down, or they would have to concede that this is a huge sacrifice on my part and I'd get a 4x brownie point multiplier. I think you played your hand a little to openly but I wouldn't lose too much sleep over. She sounds like a miserable person wielding what little
  • power she has to sell her soul to a company that doesn't gives as much of a shit about her time as she did about yours. Those people usually burn out hard and hate their life post-retirement. Die early kind of stuff. Huge bullet dodge.
  • ghost_warlock • 1d ago My company loves the "family" line and "doing what's right" Which is why, on Friday, they fired my grand boss (boss' boss) out of nowhere ("corporate restructuring") and walked him out of the building like they were afraid
  • he was going to shoot the place up. Coworker looked him up in Workday and he'd been with the company 49 years and 7 months. No wife, no kids. Should have retired years ago but "didn't know what else to do" with his time. Fuck companies and have hobbies people lol
  • anarcho- Well. Fuck managers ofc. But objectively if this is the verbatim interactions, you got fired because you insulted her and said you were looking for another job. Which is fine if you didn't care about/need the job. But if you wanted to actually only set boundaries, you could have said you don't work without getting paid.
  • • • PrettyStudy 1d ago That sucks that you lost your job, but saying that to a shitty manager is so fucking funny. She'll probably remember what you said for a long time.
  • Wonderful-Sea4215 · 1d ago You were fired for the exit strategy comment.
  • AccomplishedCat762 · 1d ago I mean I would've just sent an immediate follow up email saying "so I understand you are asking me to do work for free/without pay on xyz date, is that correct?" And then they scramble. Because I was also once asked to work for free and I sent an email
  • immediately after the meeting saying "you are asking me to work for free, here is how you are asking me to work for free. Was I incorrect in my understanding? Please let me know what HR says about you wanting me to work for free." And obviously HR said I have to be paid for my work, they
  • changed my shift times, and I complied with working only 30 hours a week because that was all they wanted to pay me for, so I set my own hours to accommodate that request and they couldn't say anything about it because it was in writing that they only wanted me to work 30 hours a week.
  • Adept_Corner2075 • 1d ago Tell them "does a family throw me out into the street to be homeless?"
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