3-year-old's iPad habit stops aunt from sleeping, mom gets upset when she leaves in the middle of the night: 'I barricaded myself in the bathroom'

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    a young girl smiles as she lies on the carpet, holding a tablet with both hands
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    Am I wrong for leaving in the middle of the night because my 3-year-old niece was annoying me?

    1 26F am staying at my sister's 32F for the holidays. My niece usually sleeps with my sister, but it's a struggle getting her to go to bed because she's always glued to her iPad watching Cocomelon at full volume. I sleep in my nieces room since she sleeps with her parents.
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    Tonight they went to bed and basically kicked Niece out of the room because they didn't want to hear Cocomelon, so Niece came to her room with me. I of course can't kick her out of her own room and she will have a full meltdown if anyone tries to turn the volume down. I was
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    a wall painted with an orange sun and orange rainbow, with a selection of soft toys lined against it
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    going to sleep downstairs on the recliner but my sister said no because "the couch isn't meant for sleeping and it will mess up the couch". So I just grabbed my luggage and left even though I live almost 4 hours away.
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    Now my sister's upset because I won't be there for New Year as planned. Her argument is "what else do you have to do? It's not like you're working." Like, so? I still would like to sleep. I tried to deal with it one night & I literally barricaded myself in the bathroom until my niece gave up and went to their room since she can't stand being alone. Am I being dramatic?
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    closeup a woman lying with her eyes closed on a purple couch
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    MrsBLGHS NTA it's not your job to entertain your niece. They sound like lazy parents if they are just going to stick an iPad in her face instead of teaching her how to put herself to bed. Get some good rest in your bed.
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    1 Original1 Cocomelon is terrible for kids, and them just giving Cocomelon and leaving her to her own devices isn't a good sign Go have a relaxing holiday instead
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    Idontlikesoup1 Who would want to have an overnight stay at a place like this. NTA though it is baffling you even went at the first place.
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    Available-Bit317 NTA if she invited you to stay as a guest, you should be provided comfortable accommodations - even if it's family.
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    alecwhit31 NTA - they need to actually parent their child
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    Liketheanimal1 NTA but I feel terrible for this little 3 year old...
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    Otherwise Chemist920 They need to actually parent that kid, that's not going to be a functional person being raised by an iPad like that.
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    Asparagussie They didn't want to hear that junk but they expect you to be okay with it? Ugh. And your niece is allowed to do whatever she wants even if it disturbs others? NTA.

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