Stepmom and stepsister gang up on husband's sick 17-year-old daugher, demanding they get rid of her ESA cat or they won't move in, then stealing the cat and legally threatening the daughter when she takes it back

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    "[Am I wrong for] refusing to accomadate my future step family"

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    So my (17f) dad (44M) is getting married to my stepmom (39F) in July and she has two daughters. The Oldest (17f) has a slight allergy to cats and barely get a teary eye around cats.
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    We don't get along as she like to steal my stuff (Bras, lipstick, clothes, money) and she likes to take my car despite having her own. I have bad depression since my mom died and had to get a cat who's around two to help with my bad days.
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    My cat is hypoallergenic and already on food to help with shedding and allergies as my dad is allergic.
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    When my dad proposed my dad asked me to give up my closet as both my stepsisters have a lot of stuff. I agreed and my dad. promised me I wouldn't have to give up anything else.
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    A couple days ago my stepmom, and oldest stepsister came over and had a intervention. My stepmom (She doesn't believe I have mental health issues.) said it makes her uncomfortable having a bunch of medication around and I said id be cleaner.
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    She also said she is uncomfortable when I have severe episodes and don't shower and she is grossed out by my room and my smell.
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    I asked how the hell she is bugged by my smell if we mostly go to her house. She got pissed and said my depression was making everyone uncomfortable. I told her I can't control when I have episodes. We went back and forth with my dad taking her side. Eventually she said she wasn't moving in if we kept my cat.
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    I told her that cat was a medical device and I needed my cat. My stepsister said I'm being inconsiderate and gross by choosing to be dependent on my fake disability instead of my family.
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    I got pissed and went to my room. That morning I had work. and didn't see my cat which I wasn't worried cause my cat sometimes stays outside. I go to work and get back and my cat is no where.
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    I get stressed out and call my dad and tell him my cat is missing and he accidently let it slip my cat was at my step- moms house. I get pissed and drive to my step-moms house and bang on the door.
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    The youngest opens the door and lies that my step-mom wasn't home. I head inside and hear my cat but can't see her. My step-mom walks down stairs and sees me and refuses to talk to me despite me begging her where my cat is.
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    The younger step-sister admits she in the garage. My cat is in a way to small crate and I tell my step-mom Im pressing charges. I'm still really upset so I throw a pillow at my step-mom who's trying to reason with me. I guess she told my dad cause | get home and my dad rages at me.
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    He grounds me and threatens to take my cat. I go into my room and lock the door and my dad keeps saying he'll take my cat if I don't apologize. I left my dads house like yesterday morning and went to my friends house with my cat and my dad is spamming legal threats. Am I the AITAH
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    GardenSafe8519 If this is real. Call CPS yourself. Tell them your dad is threatening to take away your needed meds and emotional support animal. You're still a minor under his care.
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    Dhmsk555 NTA. I can't believe you have such a bad father. Don't return back to that house, take the cat, medicines and find a place somewhere else. Don't talk again with anyone in that lunacy which is called 'family'
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    pandora5bc Can you move in with grandparents?
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    Serendi_ptty21 NTAH Press charges and go to your grandparents or other family members who will be willing to take you in.

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