36-year-old employee frustrated at the lack of upward mobility after being stuck in the same job for 5 years due to aging bosses' refusal to retire: 'My manager is 71. Been in his role for 19 years.'

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  • An elderly man in professional business attire
  • My manager is 71. Seventy one years old. Been in his role for 19 years. Keeps saying he'll retire "next year" and has been saying that since before I was hired.
  • I'm 36 and I've been waiting for any upward movement for almost 5 years now. There is none.
  • There won't be any. Because nobody fucking leaves. And look I get it, I do. His wife got cancer in 2019, wiped out a huge chunk of what they had saved.
  • Healthcare in this country is a nightmare. I'm not saying he's a bad guy or that he doesn't deserve to work.
  • But also like... what am I supposed to do? Just wait until I'm 40 for my first promotion?
  • This isn't just my company either. I keep seeing posts in here and other subs about the job market being impossible and everyone's like "just get more skills" or "network better" but nobody wants to acknowledge that there's a massive bottleneck happening because an entire generation didn't save enough and now can't leave I looked this up the other day when I was mad and couldn't sleep lol.
  • Labor participation for people 65+ is like wayyy higher than it was even 20 years ago.
  • And I don't think that's mostly people who just love their jobs so much they can't imagine leaving.
  • Most people I know over 65 who are still working are doing it because they have to.
  • Meanwhile we get think pieces about how millennials and gen z "don't want to work" and are "quiet quitting" like excuse me??
  • I would LOVE to be engaged at work. Hard to do that when you've been doing the same role for half a decade with no path forward because everyone above you is just... staying there.
  • Forever apparently. My cousin just graduated with an engineering degree, good school, good grades. Took her 8 months to find something and it pays. 58k in a city where rent is like 2k minimum.
  • She's competing against people with 30 years experience who got laid off and are now applying to "entry level" roles just to have something.
  • How is she supposed to compete with that The thing that really kills me is we're told to save for retirement constantly.
  • Put money in your 401k! Max your roth! Compound interest! Okay cool I would love to but I can't get promoted so I can't make more money so I can barely save anything and in 40 years I'm gonna be the 70 year old who can't retire and some 25 year old will be on reddit complaining about ME It's just a cycle and it sucks and idk what the solution is honestly.
  • getridofwires I'm 62. I'd retire tomorrow if I didn't have to pay for health care for myself and my wife. Everyone I know my age is in the same boat. Universal health care or just lowering the eligible age for Medicare would open many, many jobs.
  • Street_Random Boomers can't retire because they are being screwed by the same that capitalism you are.
  • No-Surround7860 I will have to work until I die. It sux. It's all fucked up. All the jobs that used to be "teenager and college kid" jobs are now filled by grown ass adults 30 to 75. All the upper management jobs are filled by Boomers and if they're not, companies don't promote, the execs just bring their friends in. It's really impossible in most industries. The only option for the past 10 years has been to job hop for higher salary in the same position but that's only worked for millennial and
  • eurosid I'm 62 and I was absolutely planning on retiring the day I turned 65. But now? The whole calculation is based on having Medicare when I go. But the fucking Republicans are going to kill it and Social Security. The math doesn't work now. I'll have to work until I die or get too sick to continue. A lot of people my age see this. I never voted Republican once in my life. But a lot of us did. Go ahead and blame me for not changing enough minds. But we are all getting fucked by the same overl
  • Wide-Intention 1350 Maybe change your title to "boomers can't retire" there aren't many around that are still working at 71 because they want to, mate. They're working because they have too.
  • harpie84 I'm 68. I don't ever see a possibility that I'll be able to retire.
  • ¡Eugene72 My dad is 75 and literally CAN'T retire.
  • Known_Experience_794 I'm a Gen X in my late 50's. I've been working continuously since I was 12. I take a cheap vacation once a decade. Really. I have a decent paying IT job that I worked my ass off for 25 years to get. I work 60 hours a week every week for the pay of 40. I'm too old for that shit. But I expect the employer to dump me or go under in the next year or so. And nobody wants old ass burned out IT people. So after that, I'm screwed. I'll probably end up flipping burgers or say "Welcom
  • nugman91 I'm 52 and will most def have to work til I'm about 75 most likely. Certainly not cause I want to
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