‘This was in the mid-2000s before smartphones’: Woman demands to use a teen’s DVD player and earbuds during a flight, refusing to take no for an answer

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  • Young adults smiling in a group photo with a giant portable DVD player edited on top
  • Random woman requesting to share stranger's earbuds and portable DVD player

    This was in the mid- 2000s before smartphones. I was in an international exchange program with fellow teenagers on a long flight with no seat- back entertainment.
  • I was reading a book and my seat neighbor was a girl I knew from school, and on her other side was a random adult woman squirming around because she had no apparent way to entertain herself.
  • photo of a portable DVD player
  • My friend was watching some movie on a portable DVD player and earbuds. At some point, the adult woman tapped her on the shoulder and asked if my friend could set her DVD player on the tray tables between them and share an earbud with her!
  • Of course it's disgusting to have a stranger put your earbud in their nasty ears, but this was before Airpods, so my friend would've had to lean in close to this adult stranger to share the earbud.
  • All in all, it came across as very entitled and invasive. My friend, being glib, apologized and said. only one earbud was working and couldn't share.
  • teenagers smiling in a group photo
  • This woman had the gall to say, "No worries, we can use mine!" and pulled out her own personal (USED) earbuds!!
  • Disgusting! At this point, my teenaged friend was losing confidence in the face of adult audacity and likely would've just went along with it, so I put down my book and butt in, saying "OK I'm ready to share the movie with you now!" And proceeded to take an earbud and pretended to put it in by stringing it over my ear and started the movie back up.
  • That completely shut up the strange woman and eventually I went back to reading my book, giving back my friend's earbud.
  • The woman never called us out for sharing the allegedly broken earbuds. I haven't talked to that friend in about 20 years and don't remember her last name, but I still vividly recall in great detail the look on that woman's face when I poached the DVD player from her.
  • FukmiMoore I have never understood people who don't plan a way to entertain themselves on long haul flights, train or bus trips. Prior to ebooksi always had a couple of magazines, at least three books and a puzzle book to occupy myself.
  • godihatepeople Original Poster's Reply I remember that got all two weeks' worth of my missed schoolwork done on between all flights and layovers, including reading that book and writing out an essay by hand (gasp!) for English. It admittedly helped that the math teacher went with us because I could not have done new calculus material on my own
  • Scared_Hand902 The audacity to pull out her own USED earbuds like that makes it better is absolutely sending me. Good on you for intervening
  • godihatepeople Original Poster's Reply She already had her tray table down and everything. She had clearly been watching the movie out of her peripheral prior to speaking up, but this was before subtitles were customary so I imagine it only did so much for her attention span. I very pettily, and dare I say quite bitchfully, turned the DVD player away from her to angle more toward me when I commandeered it to make her view even worse. In the moment I told myself it was to minimize the chances of
  • Wise_Thanks8086 mid 2000s flights were lawless but this was still not ok at all
  • MoonlitCinderGrove Same here, I don't get how people just... sit there for hours with nothing. My anxiety could never.
  • OpportunityMany5374 Are you... Me? $$700
  • Interesting_Wing_461 I always plan my reading before a flight.

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