Employee tells coworkers how much his raise was, despite manager asking them to keep it private: ‘[Colleague] is making $14000 less than I am’

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  • A group of male and female colleagues talk at an office desk.
  • "AITAH for telling my coworkers exactly how much my raise was after my manager told us all to ‘keep compensation private’ and accidentally exposing that three people doing the same job are being paid completely differently?"

    want to start by saying I did not intend to blow anything up. This was not a calculated move.
  • I am a person who cannot lie convincingly and had one glass of wine at a work happy hour.
  • That's the whole setup. So our company has one of those unwritten "don't discuss salaries" cultures.
  • Nobody ever officially told us we couldn't because legally they can't but the vibe was always very much keep it to yourself.
  • My manager had mentioned during my last review that compensation was "a private matter between employees and the company." I nodded.
  • I moved on. Then last month I got a raise. A good one. I was genuinely thrilled and said so out loud at happy hour when a coworker asked how I was doing.
  • She asked what I was so happy about. I told her. Including the number. She went very quiet.
  • Turns out she has been in the same role as me for two years longer, has a better performance record, and is making $14,000 less than I am.
  • A set of hands calculating on a calculator.
  • She told two other coworkers. One of them is making even less. By the end of the week the whole team knew and three people had gone to HR.
  • My manager called me into a meeting and said I had created a "toxic environment" by sharing my compensation and that it was "unprofessional and damaging to team morale." I told her and this is the part people are divided on that the damage to morale wasn't caused by the information existing.
  • It was caused by the situation the information revealed. And that if the compensation was fair and consistent, none of this would have been a problem.
  • She did not love that. HR is now conducting a "compensation review." Two of my coworkers have thanked me privately.
  • My manager hasn't spoken to me normally since. And I'm sitting here wondering if I should have just smiled and said "oh you know, just glad it's Friday." AITAH for saying a true thing that turned out to have consequences nobody was prepared for?
  • Crocheted Fishing Line NTA. It's illegal to tell employees to not discuss their pay and to retaliate for them doing so. If you have any of this in writing you should send copies to a non work email. I'd recommend heading over to r/legaladvice
  • morphias 1008 NTA No, you did nothing wrong.
  • lostmymarbles 1177 NTA. Women are still paid significantly less than men for the same work. Even if you are also female, you absolutely did the right thing. If you were more skilled, performed better, or worked harder, maybe but denying others with better performance the same pay is just evil.
  • callnick I say bless you You've had coworkers say thank you so you did the right thing.
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