Professional photographer does her brother's catering company's marketing for free until he jokes that her career isn't “real" at a party; so she sends him an invoice: ‘I have clients who pay me very well for what I give him for free’

She did $28,800 worth of work for free to help launch her brother's catering business, but when he dissed her in front of everyone, she wasn't feeling so generous anymore. 

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  • Professional female photographer checking the settings on her camera.
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  • Photography and videography jobs are so nebulous because the cameras, and all their magicks, are no longer gatekept. Once hidden to the general population behind a monumentally expensive paywall, cameras are now in everyone's pocket, getting upgraded with every new iPhone gimmick and every photo enhancement app. What most people struggle to understand is the artistry and the nuances of photography, which requires years of training, skill, and an innate ability (an “eye” as they once called it) to create composition. 

    Anyone can take a photo on their phone, sure, but not everyone is a photographer. 

    I've seen enough photos on my dad's camera roll, with 100x pixelated zoom, uncentered portraits, and a blurry thumb in the corner of every photo to know that being a photographer is far more complex than a simple snapshot.

    This photographer's brother seemed to think otherwise…

    Although he had been the main beneficiary of her talents, enjoying free business marketing on her behalf for over two years, he didn't see the value in her career. After spending years curating her own business, she was tired of explaining her profession to those who didn't understand or appreciate it. So when she realized how her brother really felt about her career, she decided to remind him how she paid her own bills: With money from paying, appreciative clients. 

  • AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it
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  • I already sent it. Its sitting in his inbox right now. And I know this is going to cause a family thing but I dont care anymore.My brother
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  • started a small catering business about two years ago. He does events. Weddings. Birthdays. Corporate stuff. Hes
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  • good at the food part. Hes terrible at everything else. Which is where I come in.I am a videographer and photographer. I do
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  • Chef of a catering company working in the kitchen.
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  • this full time. Its my career. Its what pays my bills. And for the past two years | have been doing all of my brothers promotional content
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  • for free. Every single piece of it.Menu photos. Event highlight reels. Social media content. Short videos for his website. Headshots
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  • for his team page. Ive even shown up at some of his events on weekends to shot footage he can use for marketing. All free.
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  • All because hes my brother and I wanted to see him succeed.Were talking probably eight to ten hours a month on average. Sometimes
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  • Catering buffet setup at an event.
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  • more during his busy season. If I were billing a client for this work it would be somewhere around 800 to 1200 dollars a month depending on
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  • the scope. Ive been doing it for two years. I have given this man thousands of dollars worth of work.
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  • Last month we were at a family dinner and someone asked my brother about his marketing. He said oh my sister handles all that. Then
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  • someone asked him what I charge. He laughed and said nothing she just does it on her phone its not like its a real production.
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  • On her phone. Not a real production. I use professional cameras. Professional lighting. Professional editing software that I pay monthly for. I have
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  • spent years learning this. I went to school for this. I have clients who pay me very well for exactly what I give him for free.
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  • And he told a table full of people that I do it on my phone like Im posting instagram stories.
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  • As a man whose livelihood was based on his services, his skills, and his trade, he should have known better than to diss someone's hard-earned career. 

    The fact that he even tried to cower behind the excuse of it being “a joke” justifies her response even more. Not only was he willing to diss her and her career in front of potential clients, but he also belittled and diminished her for nothing more than a cocktail hour chuckle. Nice going, big bro. 

  • I didnt say anything at dinner because I was too stunned. But I went home and I thought about it all night. The next morning I opened a
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  • blank invoice template and billed him for the last three months of work at a heavily discounted rate. About a third of
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  • what I would charge any other client. I sent it with a message that said going forward I need to charge for my time.
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  • the same way you charge clients for your food. He called me within an hour. He said I was being ridiculous.
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  • He said family doesnt charge family. I said family also doesnt tell a room full of people that what I do isnt real work. He said it was a joke. I
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  • said it wasnt funny and it told me exactly how you see what I contribute to your business which is apparently nothing.
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  • Matt Dave... "Explain what was funny about your joke, I don't get it"
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  • Lavender... You've helped him promote his business for free for years and he has an opportunity to brag on you and he
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  • skips the opportunity and dismisses what you do, instead? That's not a joke. That's just mean.
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  • Dachshun... "What is funny about blatantly disrespecting me and the thousands of dollars of work I have done for you for free?"
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  • I dont know why you discounted anything. Take down anything of yours and quit being the doormat.
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  • WestCovina... Not only are you not the j, you should not even bill it at a discount. He pays full price from here on out.
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  • Dizzy-Revo... Family doesnt charge family but family also doesnt tell a table full of people that what you do is basically nothing. He valued your work at
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  • zero and is shocked you put an actual number on it
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  • Wolfstigma. There's a lot of people that think "family" means you both have to put up with people being and that you can treat family like . Kinda stupid.
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