Mom attempts to steal her 18-year-old daughter's 6-figure vintage clothing resale business model from her: 'My mom was my best friend.'

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  • Would I be the bad guy if I confront my mom about trying to take my business?

    Mom trying to take my buisness I run a 6 figure clothing reselling buisness I live with my parents and I talk with them about everything related to said buisness, most important part being suppliers.
  • my mother went around me and is speaking and trying to buy from said supplier to resell is it wrong that I feel very upset?
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  • WonderingMe If you're making 6 figures maybe it's timed to move out.
  • No-Strawberry8428 Original Poster's Reply Im only 18 I just prefer being able to invest a extra 3k a month into my portfolio also im in san diego
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  • JustfcknHarley YTA cause you're a scalper, and you just created another.
  • No-Strawberry8428 Original Poster's Reply I sell vintage clothing nothing of that matter
  • RandomGuy_81 Why on earth would you tell someone your whole business model, who your suppliers are. Your day to day Thats just inviting someone to copy your business Nta for confronting her but yta for setting this up and expecting her not to cash in as well
  • No-Strawberry8428 Original Poster's Reply its my mom she was my best friend but your right
  • giltedgardens ESH - Drop shippers are not businesspeople and are about as necessary as ticket scalpers. You're a hypocrite for being mad at her; she is just doing the same thing that you are
  • No-Strawberry8428 Original Poster's Reply Its vintage clothing private supplier
  • SASSIESASSQUATCH There's suppliers for vintage clothing???
  • No-Strawberry8428 Original Poster's Reply Private rag houses
  • Tess408 Is she trying to contribute in some way? That's the only way I'd get involved with my kid's business but I'd ask what help he wanted first. Don't tell her anything else. Keep your electronics and property locked down. Move away. YWNBTA.
  • No-Strawberry8428 Original Poster's Reply No she opened a online store and bought all the things necessary to try and compete and or take over
  • lamIrene I'd be upset. Feels sneaky and conniving. You are NTA for feeling upset about that. Have you asked her about this? You can talk to her without being confrontative. Just ask why she did it.
  • No-Strawberry8428 Original Poster's Reply Honestly I haven't yet found out this morning and just thinking it through
  • SnooChipmunks 770 NTA for your mom, but YTA for being a reseller. Resellers are the reason thrift stores and estate sales are basically empty or crazy expensive now and poor people can't find decent clothes anymore.
  • No-Strawberry8428 Original Poster's Reply I only buy from rag houses and goodwill bins which is where clothes are cut into rags for workers to wipe there sweat
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  • WonderingMe Tbh it's more than a little f ed up for a parent to recruit their kid into a problem like that. You need to move out. There is nothing Grantham about your dynamic and you don't have to stay in San Diego. You also should have plenty of money left over even after putting away $3k/mo if you've had this business for over a year (and if you haven't, how would you know it's a 6 figure business?). Move, then therapy.

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