Corporate employee quiet quits for 3 months, is continually rewarded on a 'job well done': 'Somehow, I’m still employed and I have no idea why'

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  • A businesswoman looks checked out at her desk
  • I Just Stopped Working

    I'm still employed, but I just stopped working. I'd say approximately three months ago. I throw my corporate job a bone every now and then and get sh done just so it looks like I'm working, but I really haven't done sh for like three months. Somehow, I'm still employed and I have no idea why. Every week my boss tells me I'm doing a good job in our one-to-one calls. I've literally never done such a job in my entire life of approximately 30 years of working.
  • What an experiment. I'm kind of flabbergasted. Wonder how long this will go on... You can see from my previous post that I just have like zero motivation and don't care anymore for this job. I am working other side jobs that are way more interesting and fun that I have nothing to do with this industry at all. In fact, they are jobs that like anybody could do with no
  • qualifications and I'm making way more money doing them in way less time. Now they won't be forever jobs because they don't have insurance, stock, and a W- 2, but they also don't drive me to want to jump off a cliff. Today I got a message from a coworker asking if I can meet and give her some advice on how to do something and it's taking everything and me to not reply
  • with, "I really don't give a fl and I would definitely recommend asking someone else." but I bet if I did it wouldn't even matter lol. She'd say OK thanks! For more context, I've been through a brutal divorce over the last four years, been though DV, and had to fight like h I to keep myself and my son safe, which I've managed to do. So ALL of my money has gone into lawyers to
  • protect my son and me. That obviously hasn't helped. But it's definitely given me perspective on what I wanna do and where I want to spend my time. Anyway, this is definitely total burnout mode I'm in. I'm not sure how to "snap out of it." No amount of exercise, prescription dr s, or reframing my brain is working at this point. My whole life, I've worked really hard, been a good person, been generous
  • with my friends and family, and for what? Where is it actually gotten me. Bankrupt and a slave to the corporate world. Awesome I think with everything going on in the world, I'm just having a super hard time focusing on a job that really doesn't matter and that I know is inevitable to get replaced by Al within a couple of years anyway.
  • Anyone in the same boat? Any hacks? What are you doing? It's not like I have a back up plan. I'm just kind of....frozen.
  • Commenters commiserated and shared their experiences.

    Alternative Reso... I once worked for two departments and two bosses. Both bosses barely gave me any work because they thought I was busy with work for the other department. It lasted 3 years. that I didn't really have to do anything. I was praised for my sacrifice of working two jobs lol.
  • _Art_Vandela... Quiet quitting paired with not being fired or even recognized as slacking is a jackpot. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth, don't overthink it. Just keep cruising.
  • Drone314 You wake up one day and realize we have the technology level of the Jetsons but the political and social system of Game of Thrones. Reject it. Lay Flat, Quite Quit. Withholding your labor is a great power.
  • A woman writes something down in an agenda at her desk
  • Mad_Minotaur_... most days i have maybe 2 hours of work and I usually push that off to another day lol The tedium of it can become unbearable but I know i've got a good thing going here and i do my best to remind myself of that when my coworkers get me close to quitting
  • SpiritTrail Walker It's not just you. I could barely give 2fs right now either.
  • Just-Seaweed Wow! This whole string of comments has made me feel less alone. I occasionally have huge anxiety that I'm going to get in trouble but I do work enough to help my department function. I just don't care at all. I'm sooo burnt out and spend a
  • lot of time working on creative projects, sending work to literary mags, emailing friends, and reading. My life is over halfway over. I need fulfillment.
  • Harrigan_Raen I quiet quit for over 10 months. The only reason it ended was because i finally gave up on being fired and just quit.
  • rosesforthemon... I'm right there with you. I've never cared less about a job in my life. I'm not going to quit because it pays well, the schedule is perfect, and they're basically paying me to do nothing all day long. I just got fed up with trying to look busy and cleaning. things that are already clean because I've already cleaned them 20 times in one week.
  • Don't have to worry about getting canned no matter what I do or don't do. The managers don't have the authority to fire anyone and the business owner doesn't fire anyone. He doesn't GAF what goes on there as long as he doesn't have to deal with anything. I've never seen anyone more checked out at work than that guy he was ready to retire 10 years ago. --
  • Lately I've been spending most of my day planted on a chair, waiting for customers to come in to the shop. I really couldn't care less what the manager thinks about that. She told me the other day that I was doing a good job holding down the chair that I was sitting on. I said "thanks" and threw her a wink. Rolled my eyes at her when she walked away, but didn't get up off that chair.
  • Turbulent_Char... I am so there with you. I was a high achiever when I was young, an enthusiastic worker, went above and beyond and wanted to climb the corporate ladder. Now I WFH as an individual contributor and have zero aspirations of doing more.
  • I think my nervous system has been in fight or flight for a decade and I just don't care. Especially when we're inundated daily by threats to "destroy an entire civilization" and the like...like who cares about my stupid projects?
  • Nefilim777 Definitely in the same boat. Completely apathetic about work for the most part. Totally unmotivated. I desperately want to do something more meaningful but I'm the sole income earner in my family and simply can't afford to.
  • m Listen, don't feel bad or guilty. Human beings are not built to sit at a desk for 40 hours a week. This is against everything we are evolved to be and do. It also stifles our potential as individuals and as a species. What follows is my opinion based on
  • observation so take it with a grain of salt. But I believe this type of work structure was invented by men so they could have somewhere to go and feel important in the post-industrial world while their wives did all the labor at home. But now it appears that the powers that be have realized that this
  • work structure allows for tight control over human behavior. While co id was horrific for obvious reasons, it also gave people a sense of what might be possible if they weren't forced to commute and waste their lives in an office. Ride the wave and make it work for you.
  • Edit: I think it's important to add that this is not meant as an attack on men as a whole. Obviously this work structure makes most of us miserable, including the vast majority of men, and it was a very small minority that enjoyed/benefited from it
  • gravitydoesntlie I bought a mouse mover and started sort of quiet quitting 6 months ago by just not going over and above. anymore...I still run my team, assign work and am available for questions and trouble shooting but I just stopped doing the most and the result was I got promoted
  • BananaJelloXlii Been there. Years ago. I just quit giving a sh. Would show up late, insulted a manager, did everything I could to get fired. I felt at that point, if I quit, they would win. I was in my 20s, 20 something logic. I worked for an employment agency, and it was an hour
  • commute, and they would call at 5am and ask me to come in at 6. It got to the point where if they tried to ask me to come in early, I would report off for that day. Eventually, I just started showing up 4 hours late, refusing to stay over, etc. Surprisingly, I got away with that for about a week before the employment agency terminated my contract with the company I was working at.
  • Starfury_42 At my previous job (8 yrs ago) they outsourced our department. I managed to be one of the people kept on for 2 months to answer questions of the new team. They never called so I ran
  • reports twice a week that took maybe 2 hours out of 40. So I watched Netflix/YouTube and played Skyrim/Guild Wars 2. Then my boss quit and I stopped doing the report. Sat there doing nothing/job hunting and getting paid for it.

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