Resident assumes their neighbor will volunteer as an unpaid dog sitter because they work from home, but the busy remote worker proves them wrong: ‘[She] got offended when I said no’

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  • Woman having a discussion with her neighbor.
  • "My neighbor wanted free dog sitting and got weirdly offended when I said no"

    So my neighbor Karen (not her real name but honestly fitting) knocked on my door last Saturday morning and asked if I could watch her two dogs for the upcoming long weekend. Three
  • days. Her dogs are fine I guess, a lab and some kind of terrier mix, but they're a lot of energy and one of them chewed
  • through my friend's phone charger the last time I helped her out. I said sorry I have plans this weekend and also I'm not really set up for
  • Woman walking five dogs at the same time.
  • dogs at my place right now Totally polite, no big deal right. She kind of pauses and
  • then goes "well it wouldn't be that much work, they mostly just sleep." And I said yeah I get that but I still can't do it this weekend. Then
  • she hits me with "I just figured since you work from home you'd have the time." Like. okay.
  • Woman enjoying her dog's company.
  • Working from home doesn't mean I'm available to run a free boarding service for your pets?? Then she says -
  • and this is the part that - got me "I thought we were friends, I would do it for you." Which, we are neighborly but we've had maybe four real conversations in two years. I don't even know her last name.
  • Woman with multiple dogs in a training session.
  • I ended up just repeating that I can't help this time and she left but she seemed genuinely annoyed. Walked past me in the parking lot
  • yesterday and barely nodded. I looked up local dog boarding after and it's like $45-60 a night which honestly seems totally reasonable for
  • someone to care for your animals. But apparently the correct price is zero because we once borrowed each other's parking spot.
  • Older woman knocking on her neighbor's door.
  • No-Cardiologis.... My wife is a licensed dog boarder in the uk and we charge £45 per night per dog so that'd be £270 for 3 nights.
  • They are work and responsibility, need to be walked, fed and cleaned up after.
  • And guaranteed the people that say their dog is no bother and mainly sleep, those are the dogs that are the biggest pain in the . Start whining down the house at 3am etc.
  • nelltbe Its called "Working from home" not "Being free and twiddling my thumbs from home". No-one is free when working. Your neighbour is just a bit special I guess
  • OldManJeepin⚫ LOL! Dogs probably can't wait to get away from her!
  • SeaFans-SeaTu... . "I figured since you worked from home..." Answer: "Oh you misunderstand. I don't work around my house. I work a full time job in my house. I can't run errands on company time."Smiles politely
  • "I thought we were friends, I would do it for you." Answer: "How nice! I didn't know you considered me a friend. Maybe I will take you up on your offer for help someday." Smiles politely.
  • ItsJoeMomma ⚫ "I thought we were friends." Well, friends don't use emotional manipulation on each other.
  • tizzy296. There's a reason she's pressuring you and not any of her actual friends. She's probably burned those bridges
  • AnotherUnkno... I worked from home for 15ish years and it's not only the assumed availability but worse the misconception that you are just chilling and you aren't really "working"
  • wouter135 ⚫ No is a full sentence. I don't do any favours to entitled people

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