'Teenagers pushed us too far': Patient neighbors reach their limit after months of teenage craze and a late-night fence break-in, and get the family nearly evicted by texting the landlord a time-stamped video compilation

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  • Nighttime backyard gathering with people standing outside a house near a small fire pit.
  • Teenagers pushed us too far and probably got their family evicted.

    I try to be a polite neighbor. You're not going to see me often and I won't seek out conversation, but when new neighbors move in, I will go and introduce myself and offer mine and my spouse's phone number. This is a nice
  • neighborhood, it's completely normal to give Christmas baskets or let someone's dog out if they need it, stuff we did for our previous next door neighbors. No one would complain about a random party on a holiday
  • weekend, I won't be bothered by your kids playing loudly on the sidewalk, people behave but aren't unreasonable about expectations. Especially since we live in townhouses that are all
  • Woman lying on a bed looking at her smartphone with a concerned expression indoors.
  • connected, there's just no way to eliminate all neighbor noise. All this to say that I don't think we have unreasonable community expectations.
  • Since these new neighbors moved in the vacant rental next to ours we have had nothing but trouble. They have only been here a couple of months, but they are the second-worst neighbors we have ever had. The absolute worst was a couple at our first apartment who resolved conflicts via fisticuffs.
  • The first annoyance was a normal one. Their bass was too loud through the walls, a common problem since people aren't aware of how thin the walls are. (We did the same thing. Our
  • previous neighbors texted, we apologized and adjusted settings, confirmed they couldn't hear it anymore, and all was well.) We work from home and needed to be in meetings so we went over to ask them to turn it down and no
  • one answered. Finally we texted the mother, and the music only happened in late afternoon between the time when her kids would get home from school and when she would get home from
  • work. Since it was a couple of hours maximum we let it go and didn't schedule any meetings during those times. We were kids once, too.
  • Man and woman lying on a bed laughing together while looking at a smartphone.
  • Then Spring Break happened. Either the mother works both days and nights or simply spends 18 out of 24 hours outside the house. Twice in one night my husband had to sternly tell her daughters' friends to stop looking in our cars, leaning on our cars, and
  • screaming after midnight. Five feet from our front door, by the way. Then the next night we catch them doing it AGAIN! My husband opens the door to one of the drank little idiots *popping a squat and less than a foot from our car!* My husband, being
  • a reasonable man, starts yelling angrily at them for FRONT OF OUR DOOR. The hooligan closest to sober remembered basic survival IN instincts and began wrangling the rest of them into the house, apologizing sloppily but profusely.
  • Apparently a very angry, very big, very bearded man yelling will do that to ya. Later we have yet another text exchange with the mother. We make our stance known and I'm quite proud of myself for keeping my temper in
  • check. She said she will handle it and we end the conversation on good terms. Even then we were willing to try and be nice and give them another chance. We were little a hole teens once and
  • chalked it up to the high of spring break. We hosed off the pavement and tried to generate a level of patience hitherto unforseen in either of us.
  • Couple sitting on a bed looking at a smartphone together while using a laptop.
  • We had about a week of peace, but the good times couldn't last. The teen girls have developed a small collective of devoted derelict boys who hang around outside their house several
  • afternoons a week. They once again leaned on our cars, looked into our cars, and were little ah_les when my husband came outside. They tried to mouth off but when he asked them to repeat themselves they scuttled down the sidewalk. Rinse and repeat for a couple of weeks.
  • That brings us to last night. We're fun and exciting people, so we were idly scrolling our phones. while watching something. Suddenly there was a loud *bang!* and we noticed a phone
  • flashlight on our back patio. They had **broken through our fence** and were scrambling for a way out. We hear/vaguely see whoever it is crash through our garbage cans on the other side. His
  • options were either to run that course, risk the 10+ft drop into. woods, or escalate to breaking and entering in a state where he would have probably become a statistic. In an obviously rare moment of intelligence, he chose
  • the first option. The whole thing freaks us the h I out, and by the time we get our heads on right and go out front we see those same g d In teens scattering through the neighborhood like mice. One of them didn't get far
  • enough away and tried to casually act like he was just walking by but when we confronted him he was clearly rattled. We weren't about to detain a child because we're not psychotic, so we let him go. He scampered off to wherever little sh s go when they're not ruining everyone's evening.
  • The neighbor on the other side of the Problem House had someone break into their back area as well going the opposite direction, and I panicked. I reached out to the mom, convinced her daughters may have been hurt or they were robbed. She brushed me off and
  • Woman lying on a bed smiling and waving during a video call on her smartphone.
  • got a little ride when I told her the trespassers had definitely come from her house and that every other neighbor said the same thing. That is until a random "uncle" appeared, driven home by someone else. He listened to us and fed us the usual bulls
  • people do when they don't want to deal with anything. Lots of empty apologies and excuses for why the kids are alone. But apparently he told the mom that four adults were all saying the same thing: The working theory is that the boyfriends somehow
  • knew an adult was coming back (probably location sharing) so they panicked and left out the back.
  • The mom tried to walk back her attitude and apologized after hearing how many witnesses there were, but I am not very forgiving once I'm at a certain point. It's something I'm working on. I did not accept her apology.
  • Later when we reviewed our camera footage from the whole. night, we saw the same little sh we stopped go into her house with the others about an hour before they trespassed. The same little sh_s*come back later after
  • the trespassing* and lean on our cars, climb on our cars, and film themselves lip synching for whatever reason. So we decided to go nuclear. To quote the certified BadAssTM Cobra Bubbles, "thus far you have been adrift in the sheltered harbor of my patience."
  • Mommy Dearest had no way of knowing this, but the neighbors we were friendly with that had lived there before? They were very good friends with the homeowner. It was very easy to get his number from them, text him, and bing bang boom
  • suddenly my husband is on the phone with a very embarrassed guy whose apologies were much more coherent than friend. He was really very -girl's appreciative of the Google drive link with video of every single issue we have had (a few I've left
  • out just to save space). Complete with time stamps! The other neighbors got his phone number as well. We learned some interesting info from him. The mom gave us a different name than the one he had, there were
  • only supposed to be two people total living there (we see five or more living there regularly), other fun things I'll leave to your vivid imaginations. Needless to say, they're in violation of their lease with just this. But one thing my husband and I have in common is that we are very thorough.
  • So the next step was the police report. Did you know that in my state you can file a non- emergency report online for things like someone on your back porch late at night or people casing your car? It's really very easy! Our HOA isn't open until Monday, but they had a nice little contact page we filled out. The
  • other neighbors also filed reports and contacted the HOA. However bad my Saturday night was, I think their upcoming week might be worse.
  • My husband informed the mother via text of all the steps we had taken and that our cameras are always on, front and back. She has been silent and absent from the home since I did not accept her apology last night and laid out exactly how much trouble her kids have been when she's not around
  • (which is always). Not sure what will happen next, a little concerned about retaliation from the little . But now we have a paper trail, an immediate line of communication to the landlord, and they're aware they've been being recorded the entire time. Any escalation
  • beyond this is their choice. ETA that I don't think the eviction is in motion yet or anything at all. I don't know anything other than they are in direct violation of their lease in multiple ways, and that in my state that's a wrap on your tenancy.

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