Teacher fails student at presentation after claiming she didn't dress professionally enough, despite student coming from a poor household: ‘That was the best I could do’

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  • A girl (model) in a school uniform leaning against a yellow locker.
  • Got a bad grade because we are poor

    So this happened a while ago but it still gets me. In middle school, we had this big project we were working towards that was basically part of a "career preparedness" thing, and at the
  • end, we would have to do a mock job interview. This was all graded, and the interview part would be a huge percentage of the grade.
  • I grew up really poor, I didn't have clothes for the mock interview, and my parents couldn't afford to get me anything for it either. But my mom still tried her best to help
  • make it as good as possible. I had a pair of tattered sneakers I wore everyday, and she cleaned them the best she could the night before. My dad let me borrow one of his button down shirts
  • since none of my mom's shirts fit (for reference, I am a girl, so even still his shirt was too big for me, but was better than my ugly t- shirts lol). And I ironed my best pair of jeans to make them look as nice as possible.
  • The morning of, my mom also did my hair really nice to look as professional as I could. I go to the mock interview, and I thought I did actually pretty good, considering I was really nervous.
  • But then I get my grade afterwards. I failed the mock interview part. In the comments, the teacher doing the interview said I answered questions fine and had a good demeanor, but I didn't dress professionally
  • I never told my parents that I failed it because of that, I felt too bad after they tried to help me look as good as they could. Looking back I wonder if I had, and my parents had contacted the teacher to explain we just
  • the teacher to explain we just couldn't afford new clothes at the moment, if it would've helped. Maybe she just didn't realize that was just the best I could do at the moment. But it still pes me off remembering it
  • A young teacher (model) standing in the middle of a classroom.
  • Ok_Department_7563 I would honestly complain about that now even if it happened a while ago.
  • Ok-Lawfulness5601 the fact that you never told your parents is the part that gets me. they did everything they could and you took the hit quietly to protect them from feeling like it wasn't enough. that's more maturity than that teacher showed
  • xJaneDoe This breaks my heart. And I feel so bad that you felt like you had to hide this from your parents and hold on to this for so long.
  • That's why I hated when we had to do interviews too in civics and careers class. It didn't feel fair to be graded on how we were dressed when some of us couldn't afford fancy clothes
  • Mountain-Practice-43 I once got a poor grade on a "wax figure" type of presentation in 6th grade simply because my skirt layering was the wrong century. We lived in a tent. Granted, my parents couldn't care less, but school teachers should know better.
  • cupcakes_and_ale As a mom, I'd have talked to the teacher and torn them a new one if they kept that grade. I don't condone parents getting teachers to coddle students for real problems, but this is not that.

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