Recently single 75-year-old man has been contacted by multiple exes in the span of one month and doesn’t understand why: ‘What is the psychological motive here?’

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  The newly single man

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• I am currently a single 75m that dated 70f, and others. In the span of just 4 weeks, five women I dated over the past 10 years have randomly contacted me out of nowhere.

  
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  All the exes getting back in touch

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  The phone with all the messages 

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• Doing fine is attractive; there is no question about it; that, I think, is the main motive why exes and new people are attracted to us when we’re doing fine. What I do also think is that not everybody who becomes attracted to us in those periods should be let in, because sometimes, they are just attracted to that glow, like moths to a flame, but then they don’t want the rest, your humanity, your realness. So my suggestion would be this: enjoy your newly gained seduction powers; you’ve earned them, but don’t let everyone in, because not everyone deserves it.

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