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Olivia Arocena

Writer and Editor
Olivia has been an official writer since the day she published her first poetry book at just 19 years old, but she’s been an unofficial writer since forever. After that came the publication of her Diaries, which she had been writing for most of her late teens and continues to do so today. One lucky day, she finally managed to merge her offline writing with her online persona and craft a blog, where she publishes more polished pieces aimed at a curious audience that can’t keep track of her many talents. She graduated from Drama School and is currently studying Linguistics. She is also chronically online, an avid reader, and a singer. A fascination with the many ways humans communicate is what drives her work and interests.
My best friend says that when you are not getting any dates, you should date anyone, even if you don’t like them, to ‘get the juices flowing’  I think she might have a point. I’m not sure I believe in ‘juices’ or ‘energy,’

‘So, We Together? Naw, But You Better Act Like It’: 17 Dating Memes for Those Trying to Get Back Out There

I did it. I went too far with my gym obsession, and now I have to rest for an entire week  Take this as a cautionary tale. Do not get too excited about what you can lift. It’s better to go little by little. If you add too much weight, your joints might not be ready, and it’s going to hurt.

‘People Who Train to Make Sad Head Voice Go Away’: 17 Gym Memes For The Gym Rats Obsessed With Happiness Gains

Actions speak louder than words  The woman from this story has discovered that her boyfriend was actually capable of noticing that someone deserved a special gesture, imagining what would make them feel cared for, spending time and money to do it, and following through. Sadly, that someone wasn’t her.

Woman realizes her boyfriend was always capable of being attentive, just not toward her: ‘He was late getting home because he was buying flowers and cake for a student from some other discipline on their last day’

If you don’t see a problem with living at your parents' house at age 31, you might want to look again  Everyone can go through a rough patch and have to move back to their parents'.

31-year-old man says he sees no problem with living with his parents indefinitely: ‘I just don’t see a reason to move out. I enjoy living here. I have a side entrance to get into the house, so there’s a bit of privacy’

If being a homebody were a profession, I’d be a professional  I haven’t left my house all weekend. I’m not necessarily proud of it, but it is what it is. I’ve been resting, writing, and watching The Handmaid's Tale. I know it’s old, but I hadn’t seen it!

‘You Gotta Bump Those Numbers Up, Tose Are Rookie Numbers’: 17 Antisocial Memes for Homebodies Who Absolutely Love Staying Inside

The real conflict isn’t about the boys; it’s about the disproportionate distribution of caregiving chores  The fact that the husband will be there too doesn’t mean his labor is equal. I suppose it isn’t equal when it’s only their kids either, but at least there are fewer people to care for.

Woman doesn’t want husband’s former stepkids to join their first vacation: ‘I’m now seriously considering canceling the vacation altogether if my husband insists on changing the plan’

Only if we were raised by someone who taught us to watch how our love interests handle finances can we escape what happened to the woman who wrote this story. Honestly, that would be pretty clever advice, but sadly, very few people actually get it.

33-year-old woman regrets “badly misjudging” her husband and trusting him with finances: ‘I’m divorcing him and having our finances investigated, but I’m really struggling to reconcile his behavior with the person I thought I married’

I think we’ve all liked a friend at some point in our lives, and we can all agree it always gets very confusing. When we like someone a lot, we naturally don’t want to lose them, so we will likely say yes to keeping them as a friend even though we want more.

Woman shares “unpopular advice” for dealing with a friend who has a crush on you: ‘They'll usually lie about their feelings going away, because they want continued access (even if it hurts them). And they WILL resent you’

Another week, another list of hopeful memes that (hopefully) will bring the best out of you  I’m struggling with hope this week, so I guess it’s the perfect time to put together a list.  When you’re hopeful, everything is easy; you find inspiration everywhere, but when you’re not, that’s when you need hopeful content most.

'Step 1: Grind. Step 2: Shine': 18 Hopecore Memes to Kick Off the Workweek With Some Much-Needed Motivation

I have a theory about kitchens and roommates  Look, I’ve lived in many houses with many roommates, and kitchens have always been the center of conflict for some reason.

Woman doesn’t know how to keep her invasive roommate away while she’s cooking: ‘He also keeps trying to make convo, lingers, and literally watches me prepare dinner when I just wanna focus, chill, and not make conversation’