UPDATE on the employee who took credit for his coworker’s project: ‘Apparently my coworker had presented my involvement as occasional support, not me doing significant parts of the work’

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  • FINAL UPDATE: I had the meeting about my coworker taking credit for my work

    Thank you again to everyone who gave me advice on my previous updates. A lot of you told me to stop trying to defend myself emotionally and just bring the receipts, so that's exactly what I did. I
  • finally had the meeting with my manager!! I brought the messages. where my coworker thanked me for completing parts of the previous project, the file history showing my contributions
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  • and the messages where he had originally promised. to mention my work. I was honestly terrified going into the meeting because I expected to have to defend every little thing, but once my manager actually saw everything
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  • laid out chronologically, the conversation changed pretty quickly. She admitted she hadn't realized how much of the previous project I had actually completed, apparently my coworker
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  • had presented my involvement as occasional support, not me doing significant parts of the work. We also discussed his current project, I showed her that I never refused to provide
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  • information he genuinely needed. He had asked me to "quickly review" his work without giving me any official scope, and after what happened last time, I asked him to put the request in writing.
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  • My manager agreed that was reasonable, the biggest relief is that she made it clear I am not responsible for keeping his project on schedule, if he needs support from me going forward, the request has to go through her so
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  • my own responsibilities and priorities are clear. She also said she wants to speak with him separately about how my work on the previous project was represented. I don't know. what will happen with that conversation, and I'm
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  • probably never going to know everything that get said behind closed doors. I'm still frustrated that it took all of this just to prove I wasn't being bitter or uncooperative, especially after watching him get
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  • promoted partly on work I contributed to. But for the first time since this started, I feel like I'm not carrying the problem anymore. I'm going to keep documenting everything and keep my interactions. with him professional. I'm
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  • also going to pay close attention to how management handles things from here before deciding whether I actually want to stay on this team long term. And no, I'm definitely not doing his project for him again!
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  • EDJardin Well done!! Expect your coworker to be bitter but that's not your problem.
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  • banxy85 Well done for standing up for yourself. Tbh management response here was close to best case scenario so, assuming they follow through on what they've said, this sounds like a good place to work going forward
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