Wife Fuming After Catching Husband Selling Her Sandwiches To Buy Fast Food For Lunch

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    Rectangle - Posted by u/Danny109. 3 days ago 2 12 20 3 19 ở 31 AITA For no longer making my husband sandwiches to take to work after discovering he was selling them? Not the A-hole
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    Font - My F33 husband M37 works at an advertising company. We're struggling a bit financially because we're saving up to purchase a new aprtment. He is used to eating fast food and it was costly. He had no problem spending money
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    Font - was costly. He had no problem spending money daily on fast food and after doing the math he spends mor than 300 a month on just fast food. 20$ daily. We live in expensive area. I talked to him about it. He agreed that I make sandwiches for him to take with him to work.
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    Font - That way he eats healthy and we spare money for rent. Everything was going on well. I noticed he wouldn't respond when I ask wether he liked the sandwiches I make. But kept asking me make more than 2 since he was hungry.
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    Font - Yesterday. He came home with his friend and co worker. We sat at dinner table and his friend brought up the sandwiches I make for my husband. And how delicious they are. I thanked him then he said the price was a bit much. I was
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    Font - him then he said the price was a bit much. I was confused I asked him to explain and he said my husband sells the sandwiches I make to his co workers then goes to buy his own lunch from the restaurant. I was stunned my husband denied it. I began arguing with him after his
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    Font - denied it. I began arguing with him after his friend left. He said there was nothing wrong with it. I told him I will no longer be making him sandwiches if he's selling them to buy fast food. He defended himself calling this an overreaction since he's not spending money on
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    Font - fast food and said I was being unfair to start an argument over this. I just walked into the bedroom and stayed there then he said I owe him an apology for God knows what and he didn't think it was acceptable of me to lash out and say I won't make him sandwiches anymore.
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    Font - Curlyks Colo-rectal Surgeon [35] 3 days ago NTA. he was profiting off your kindness and labor. he kept that he was selling them a secret because he knew it was wrong
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    Font - GoodMorningMorticia 3 days ago He wants to sell sandwiches?! Awesome! He can make them with his own hands! NTA
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    Font - aoife_too 3 days ago Yes! OP, tell him if anything, if he MUST sell them, then YOU should be getting the profit, not him. A commenter above was right - he didn't tell you he was doing it because he knew something was wrong with it. Well, this is it. He's profiting off of your time and labor, as well as disrespecting the value of your personal effort FOR HIM. And on top of that, he lied to you!! Is he usually this immature? NTA.
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    Font - Even_Speech570 Colo-rectal Surgeon [30] 3 days ago HE'S MAKING HIS OWN MONEY TO BUY LUNCH? WTE? YOU, OP are the one making the money for him to buy his crappy fast food lunch. It's a double slap in the face that he's showing he'd rather eat fast food than your food and also that he's been selling your hard work behind your back. NTA.
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    Mammal - hungrydruid Asshole Aficionado [15] 3 days ago NTA. Okay, so $15 a day, 30 days a month... husband is making and spending $450 a month off of your hard work, and hiding it from you. Plus whatever it costs you in sandwich ingredients. What a jerk.
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    Font - Purfumebase 3 days ago He's the ah here. And basically saying your labour is worthless to him. You should invoice him for the supplies and your time. If you want to be petty you could show up at his work with a box of sandwiches, sell them to all his coworkers for slightly cheaper and then take your own money you earned and buy your own stuff. Undercut him completely.
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    Font - Clarisse1984 Partassipant [3] 3 days ago Make sure to calculate the profits and give him an invoice for what he owes you. NTA He wants to make money selling sandwiches, he has to make the sandwiches himself. He stole from you.
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    Font - Danny109 3 days ago 4 3 2 Yes. I couldn't help but feel that it was disrespectful of him. He ignored that I make so much efforts trying to make him a veriety of sandwiches. And taking time at night to prepare everything. Not to mention going to the grocery store and buying the things he prefers. He makes about 15$ a day by selling sandwiches and goes to buy his lunch from the restaurant. He said I shouldn't feel mad since he's making his own money to buy his own lunch. But I'm not accepti

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