Relationships are complicated, and it doesn't get easier after marriage. Today's "Am I The A$$hole?" thread is a prime example that marriage doesn't equate to constant stability, especially when your husband is a straight-up thief. Apparently, OP's husband hasn't been able to find employment ever since he got fired due to theft accusations. Meanwhile, the only thing OP had left of her late father was his bodybuilding gear, which she worked out with and felt deeply connected to. When she was on a trip, he sold the gear without her permission so that he could buy a suit for a wedding. Naturally, she was fuming. This husband sounds like bad news. Scroll down for all the details, and let us know what you think in the comments
Sounds like OP has her shit together overall. We don't know why she feels ashamed of taking charge of her life.
This is so pure, and what her husband does next is terribly selfish.