Bride's Sister Ends Up In Divorce, Refuses To Delay Wedding, Sister Pitches Fit

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Sep 1, 2021 12:00 PM EDT

Weddings are unfortunately seemingly innately ripe for completely avoidable dramas to break out at a moment's notice. Maybe it's because people really end up letting their inner perfectionists get out of control. The thing about this crazy thing called life though, is that imperfections and acts of pure failure are always lurking right around the corner. In this particularly dramatic wedding drama we have a bride who has to deal with a sister acting all kinds of irrational after landing herself in a divorce that almost seems like it was bound to happen. The details that the bride's sister was hiding from her partner were pretty significant, man. To keep the wedding drama train rolling, check out this collection of wedding moments that told guests that the marriages definitely weren't built to last.

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    Font - AITA For not delaying my wedding because my sister is going through a terrible divorce? My sister Rachel is separating from her husband Mark. Somebody anonymously sent Mark a letter in the mail claiming their three kids werent his (ages 1, 3 and 4). Mark took a paternity test because the letter was so detailed he had a feeling it might be true. The results came back and he wasn't the father of any of the kids. Mark now wants nothing to do with my sister or my nieces and nephew. It's been
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    Font - The problem is My fiancé and I are getting married soon. Everything is set for the end of October and everyone is excited, but Rachel. She's told me multiple times to change the wedding date so she can heal from the trauma of her husband abandoning her and their children. I told her no and she burst into tears claiming I wasn't being supportive and she wasn't coming. My fiancé's family have all booked time off to come to this wedding because they live out of state. She claims l'm choosing
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    Font - UnluckyBid7655· 14h 1 Award NTA OP, you already had the day basically ready, people already have that time off, (and personal bias, halloween wedding? That better go through.) Your sister talks about getting over trauma, yet shes the one that I'm sure broke a man? Enjoy your wedding and bust out a monster bash. She can take this time to either look for a sitter for the kids or learn how to deal with her own choices in life. + 2.5k ...
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    Font - CaliforniaJade · 14h Craptain [168] 3 7 Awards All three of their children aren't his? That she repeatedly cheated on her husband and is now dealing with the consequences does not mean you don't get to move along with your life's plan. How would that sound, anyway? I'm postponing my wedding so my sister that basically cheated on her husband 3'x can feel supported. NTA 4 24.8k 3 ...
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    Font - Widgetsinparadise · 14h NTA. Your sister caused much of her own "trauma". She lied and I would assume cheated on her husband so he left her. She wasn't just abandoned. Enjoy your wedding. Probably best if she wasn't there anyways. 4 6k 3 ...
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    Font - PARA9535307 · 13h Certified Proctologist [25] NTA. If she wanted to politely decline the invite, that'd be one thing. l'd be inclined to be pretty magnanimous about it. But asking you to reschedule? Yeah, no. It's on her to bear the consequences/fallout of her own shitty actions. Not on everyone else. So keep your wedding date. And just in case, maybe assign a trusted family member/friend to keep an eye on her during the event. In case she needs a shoulder to cry on or (god forbid) throws
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    Font - hutz201917 • 14h Absolutely NTA. Yours and your husband's wedding is much more important. Secondly, how reckless do yoh have to be to not only cheat on your husband, but get pregnant THREE times as a result. She deserves everything coming to her. 132 3
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    Font - Illustrious-You5008 · 13h NTA. That's not a valid reason to cancel or postpone a wedding. People may have already paid for flights or hotel rooms... Is the father of the three kids another dude, of three other dudes? I know that really doesn't matter of change anything, I'm just curious 4 85 3 ...
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    Font - ConfusionExact7663 · 14h NTA! Your sister sounds very very entitled. The situation she's in is unfortunate for her husband and children, but your life does not revolve around her and her self-inflicted pain. She can always skip the wedding. Enjoy this wonderful time! Don't let her ruin it. You are NOT choosing his family over her. You are living your life and choosing yourself over someone who is highly self-centered. 4 60 3
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    Font - NTA People will focus on the fact your sister cheated and got caught. That has no bearing on your choice not to move your wedding date. Even if your sister's husband was the villain here, you would have no obligation to move the wedding date. Your sister's situation may mean she is unable to celebrate your marriage. She is not the star of the wedding. You are. Good luck and congratulations!! 4 305 ...
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    Rectangle - the_one_54321 • 13h NTA Your sister is a real piece of work. Also, don't be supportive. She did this. 49 3 ...
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    Rectangle - ihertzwhenip · 14h NTA. This is something long planned. She may as well have asked the school to reschedule the start of their school year. It's understandable her not wanting to come. Expecting you to delay months of planning due to her indiscretions is unreasonable 4 42 3 ...
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    Handwriting - NTA The two are not related. Get married. You deserve to get married when YOU want to. No telling how long it will take for her to "heal". 35 3 ...
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    Font - Maleficent_Ad_3958 · 13h Colo-rectal Surgeon [48] NTA (rolls eyes) NONE of the kids are his? I have negative infinity sympathy for the sister. She did this to herself. Have your wedding. If she keeps complaining, uninvite her. 4 36 3 ...
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    Font - Expensive-Bee5482 · 14h It's too late now anyway. I'm assuming she cheated so it's her problem. Edit: Another thing to note, she should have thought of that before cheating on her now ex husband. NTA. 4 28 3 ...
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    Font - Happy-Let5770 · 13h Partassipant [1] NTA.. She has so far caused chaos in 4 lives and her own. How many more people does she want to create trouble for? Your sister will never heal enough to see you having a happy wedding or relationship. She is a very selfish, self involved woman. Why do I have a feeling she is using her kids against you and your family for sympathy and attention? Be very careful of her, she cannot be trusted not to drag you down with her. Sheesh.. I can only imagine wha
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    Font - Happysoulwonders · 14h NTA wow! She deserves all of this! All of this mess is her doing and you are suppose to suffering through it as well! She doesn't sound like a good person. She didn't think how her actions will affect others and now she wants the courtesy to have her feelings accounted for. Don't pay attention to her! 4 24 3 ...
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    Font - learning-alot • 14h NTA. The world doesn't revolve around your sister, what did she expect? If she doesn't want to go, then she doesn't go. It's that simple. Enjoy your wedding! 4 21 3 ...
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