Woman's Sister Marries Her Ex, She Refuses To Attend Wedding, Sister Pitches Fit

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Sep 16, 2021 4:00 PM EDT

Of all the wild wedding dramas that we've encountered in our time, this little story right here might be on a new, nasty level of its own. Seriously. What kind of sister expects her sister to attend her wedding where she's going to be marrying their ex? It sounds like there's a lot of work that needs to go into this relationship. You can probably imagine who the moral judges of Reddit's AITA community found themselves siding with. Check out some more wedding drama with this jerk step brother who highjacked an engagement party with his baby's gender reveal.

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  • 01
    Font - AITA for refusing to be my sister's MOH because she's marrying my ex? Not the A-hole Lisa (26F) and Greg (29M) are getting married next year. Greg and I (29F) used to be a couple. We dated for 3 years before I broke up with him because he slept with his co-worker (Amber) That was 4 years ago. I have moved on from him but I still hate the guy. And I am sad that my sister is marrying a cheater (he also cheated on Amber).
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    Font - When Lisa informed the family that Greg had proposed to her and that she said yes, only our parents were happy for her. My brother and I both think that it's too soon as they only dated for a year. Lisa asked me to be her maid of honor but I told her I don't want to. But I will still attend her wedding, I just don't want to be part of the entourage. She said I am being unreasonable, and accused me of not getting over Greg. I told her I am happy with my current relationship and she has to
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    Rectangle - poeadam · 1d Craptain [153] Wtf. NTA. It is amazing that you are even willing to be chill and go to the wedding. G Reply 1 134 3 ...
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    Font - Night_Owl_26 · 1d Partassipant [3] NTA. You are not obligated to be her MOH. That you are willing to attend as a family member in light of this information is already a huge concession on your part. I feel bad for your sister, she thinks she's the exception to his behavior. I hope she finds out sooner rather than later if she's wrong. G Reply 4 538 3
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    Rectangle - 1 Award NTA - I feel that any family member who dates an ex is always in the wrong. No matter how much time has passed. It's so creepy to me. You have zero obligation to her. Yuck. G Reply 4 2.3k 3 ...
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    Font - She is ridiculous. She is marrying your cheating ex. That's her right, of course, but she should understand why you don't want to be her maid-of-honor. It's never an obligation anyway. Perhaps she could ask Amber or see if he already has a new mistress who could play MOH for them. NTA G Reply 1 99 ...
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    Rectangle - WorkingIntention131 · 1d Partassipant [1] NTA. You have feelings in this too and your concern comes from a place of love. Your sister should be more considerate of the situation this puts you in. G Reply 1 48 3 ...
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    Font - HunterDangerous1366 · 1d NTA. She can't be serious. Like REALLY? You might be over him & moved on but that means FA really when someone you love & trusts betrays you. You also have no obligation to be her MOH. Your big enough to actually attend the wedding and she should be grateful for that. G Reply 4 33 3 ...
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    Handwriting - Gachatuberfan94 · 1d NTA, because l'm getting a bad feeling about your sister getting married and I think Greg is going to break your sister's heart after getting married. É 6 Reply ↑ 19 3 + ...
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    Rectangle - wandavisionbucky · 1d NTA ASKING you to be her maid of honor, she should know that a question can either have a yes or no answer and obviously you have said no so she needs to accept that. G Reply ...
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    Mammal - Anonymous_14678 · 1d Partassipant [3] NTA and go low contact with her. She's clearly a terrible family member. G Reply ... +
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    Font - Left-Ad-4246• 1d NTA. You don't need a reason to turn down being MOH for a wedding you support. It's crazy that your family thinks you should want to be one in your exes wedding. Tell your sister you changed your mind. You decided you can't attend a wedding of a known cheater, and she should only have people there who support and celebrate their union. G Reply ...
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    Smile - NTA And what if you weren't over him? The crime of a century, not being completely over your ex!! Wouldn't that make it even worse for your sister to date him? Who cares about your pain? G Reply 仓29
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    Font - The_Krudler · 1d NTA You can offer to be MOH at her next wedding? (JK! Though we all know where marrying a serial cheater inevitably leads). You and your brother are the only reasonable ones in this scenario. G Reply
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    Font - sable1970 · 1d NTA. Has noone noticed that he has already cheated on Lil Sis? This girl is headed for some serious heartbreak and drama. I'm like 95% certain she's going to bring a child into this situation because she thinks that'll keep him at her side. This is just sad and pathetic. G Reply + ...
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    Font - Bitter-Betty · 19h NTA. I think it's pretty messed up for someone to date their sibling's ex in general and this is particularly messed up given the circumstances of how it ended. I can't imagine why anyone would think you would want to be part of this wedding party and I think it's a generous compromise that you will attend as a guest. On a side note, I always wonder what's in it for the ex. Like did he originally have an attraction to the current partner or is he not over the original r
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    Rectangle - CompetitiveAd5382 · 1d NTA They won't last long. Your poor sister. Love can make us such fools. G Reply ...
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    Rectangle - Iseeasong · 1d NTA- You are allowed to be upset and not want to be part of wedding party. G Reply
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    Smile - NTA You are being generous by offering to attend the wedding itself. You couldn't be blamed for not wanting to support you sister marrying a weasel. G Reply ...
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    Font - chart1961 · 23h Partassipant [1] NTA. My sympathies for having parents and a sister so lacking in judgement and just plain old consideration for others. Of course this is going to implode spectacularly in a few years, but sometimes you can't save people from themselves! 6 Reply ...
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    Rectangle - randomrants • 20h NTA, It's amazing to me that she would even want you in all the wedding pictures and giving the MOH speech. Maybe give her a preview and that would change her mind! haha + G Reply ...
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    Font - JenZ33 · 14h NTA, you're actually handling this pretty maturely. 6 Reply ...
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