Nosy Woman Judges Her Sister For Wanting To Share A Bed With Her Fiance

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    Font - Posted by u/According_Farm5964 3 hours ago AITA for siding with my parents when they told my sister and her fiancé to sleep seperately?
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    Font - I'm 19f and I live with my parents 52f and 54m. I have an older sister 25f who's engaged to her boyfriend of 6 years 26m.
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    Font - Her fiancé and her have been living together for 3 years. They got engaged this year. My sister also announced to us a while ago that they're expecting a baby.
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    Font - In our house there's a strict rule about unmarried couples not sleeping together and my sister knows that. She's left the house for 3 years since she moved in with her fiancé and she started visiting us for holidays. They live in a different area 2 hours away. For the past 3 years the rule was that they'll sleep in different rooms since they're not official. My sister was never fond of this rule and always tried to have it her way. But she didn't. This year she threw a fit because my pare
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    Font - They got in a huge fight on Xmas eve and I sided with my parents saying that it's their house and their rules and if she doesn't like it she can just never visit again but she has to respect the hosts and most importantly the people who raised her. She called me an AH and said that I'm still too young to understand why what my parents are doing is disrespectful to her and her fiancé.
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    Font - I don't think I'm TA because no matter how absurd a rule sounds. If you visit someone's house you do as they say. Period. But for the sake of collecting some unbiased opinions, AITA for siding with my parents when my sister threw a fit about how it's disrespectful that they won't let her sleep on the same bed with her fiancé???
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be TA because I told my sister that she has to accept the rules and boundaries our parents have set in their house no matter her personal feelings and cost.
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    Font - FlyingDutchLady · 3 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [45] YTA. You told her she can either follow their rules or "never visit again," which is very weird. She's pregnant, engaged, and clearly sleeps next to this man regularly. They traveled 2 hours to sleep at someone else's home because of the holiday and they're being forced to sleep separately because. why? What are your parents afraid of? Be careful. One day your parents will no longer be around to host things like this. Don't make an enem
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    Font - Demo_Bec · 3 hr. ago Professor Emeritass [74] YTA. A baby is more binding and official than any piece of paper declaring a marriage. What your parents are doing is incredibly disrespectful and you shouldn't have inserted yourself into the situation.
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    Font - Peasplease25 · 3 hr. ago · edited 3 hr. ago Certified Proctologist [27] YTA, keep your nose out. Did you enjoy creating a bigger issue? This is such a daft rule for parents to have, all it does is make their children not want to visit because they are being judged for something perfectly acceptable.
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    Font - thankuhexed 3 hr. ago Asshole Aficionado [12] YTA, especially for being such a little brown-noser you told your engaged and pregnant sister to never visit again.
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    Font - SissyFreeLove · 3 hr. ago YTA in a couple of ways, but you already knew that or you wouldn't be here asking. 1. Not your fight whatsoever. Keep your nose out of others' business. 2. "Theyre not official" How official do you want? Theyre living together for years, engaged AND PREGNANT. Your parents are ridiculous morons who will be the ones saying "why can't we see our grandchild?!" when your sister writes you all off.

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