Guy Harasses Girl on Tinder With "Negging", Has Brutal and Humiliating Meltdown When Confronted
When u/ivegotafeelingthat opened her Tinder to find these messages waiting for her she had to have known she was in for some trouble. No conversation that starts off with "What's up you snob." is going to end in happily ever after. Hopefully, our boy, Conz, has realized that after this experience.
u/ivegotafeelingthat immediately calls him on his opening "tactics", replying "I believe this is 'negging' right?". Unfortunately for her, it's definitely not the first time she has seen this tactic.
'Negging' is, apparently, a method that is used by "pickup artists" in order to emotionally manipulate the target. More on that below. But essentially it's supposed to be used as a sleazy, underhanded tactic into manipulating women into sleeping with you.
Lovely.
Conz then proceeds to have a full-blown meltdown but saves a little face when he actually responds positively to her advice. Hopefully this guy can get the help he needs to approach relationships in a healthy way. It's a brutal and wild dating world out there.
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Conz starts off with the super classy line of "What's up you snob"
"Negging (derived from the verb neg, meaning "negative feedback") is an act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment or otherwise flirtatious remark to another person to undermine their confidence and increase their need of the manipulator's approval. The term was coined and prescribed by pickup artists."
-Wikipedia
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OP opening up these messages for the first time.
I'd like to issue an apology to all women.
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Conz clearly has some unresolved issues...
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"I'm Frustrated at Tinda"
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I'm going to go to my grave wondering what #3 was.
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He actually listened!
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Maybe it’s just me but I feel like he just really needed to hear what op said?
JhoiraIsBae
You could tell he was definitely frustrated and really needed to vent, OLD does bring people down a lot so I'm a sense it is understandable
"OLD was miserable before the pandemic, now it's a clusterf**k of a minefield."
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RoCCochello
"Kill two birds with one stone. Date a therapist."
Bento-Oreo
Does anyone want to join my startup? I'm training hookers to be therapists. I'm also not adverse to training therapists to be hookers.
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wkdzel
I read it with an Australian accent O.o
kipspiesje
I did with a Bri'ish
Future_World_Ruler
Billy fockin tinda
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jmrene
And then posted his meltdown so everyone can see it. But I'm good with that, he was venting like that in front of a stranger, not in the confidentiality of a therapist['s] office.
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