Delusional Groom Invites Fiancée's High School Bullies To Their Wedding Behind Her Back

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    Font - Posted by u/JThrowawayK57 21 hours ago 2 2 3 2 AITA for inviting my old friends to my wedding despite my fiancee's disapproval?. Asshole
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    Font - I (m33) am getting married to my fiancee (f32) next month, We knew each other from when we were in high school. I had an old group of friends that I wanted to invite to my weeding because they were close to me back then. When my fiancee found out and read the name on every invitation, she went into panic mode.
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    Font - She said she doesn't want any member of this group in our wedding whatsoever, I asked her to explain and she claimed they'd heavily bullied and harrassed her in high school while she was dealing with major health problems.
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    Font - She said they made her life hell and caused her mental health permenant damaged. I asked if she was serious because this was many years ago and everyone has matured by now. She said no and that it doesn't make sense that I want to invite them when I don't even hang out with them since God knows when.
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    Font - I said true but most of them are from my neighborhood (parents house) and they were part of my childhood-teenage years and I wanted them to be invited. pluse I'm in constant contact with some of them.
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    Font - She said she'll veto my decision but I argued that it was ridiculous that she is so hung up on some petty high school drama. she started crying saying I have no consideration for how she feels and felt like I was prioritizing this group over her. I refused to argue anymore because I felt that she keeps disrespecting my choices yet, I got called the selfish one in this whole situation.
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    Font - She's still arguing with me about it and it's getting exhausting because I don't tell her to invite thus person or that person. AITA then?
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I could be because I did not consult nor made any consideration or realization for how she feels about the invites.
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    Font - Srs_Strategy_G edited 17 hr. ago & 233 More Partassipant [1] 20 hr. ago YTA. Let me get this straight, you want to invite them because "back in the day" you hang out with them, but her being bullied does not count because its "years ago"?
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    Eye - sushimagpie · 20 hr. ago 2 YTA. It sounds like you don't care about your future wife
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    Font - Deergasus · 20 hr. ago Asshole Enthusiast [6] YTA - look, I know it's your wedding too, but this people caused a lot of damage to her mental health. You haven't seen them in years. So why are you prioritizing them over your future wife? If you want to catch up, go and hang out with them. But don't invite ghosts of the past to a special day, that could cause a panic attack or breakdown in your wife.
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    Font - Volcheka · 20 hr. ago Asshole Enthusiast [7] YTA Please don't marry someone you don't respect.

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