Woman Refuses To Sell Her Dog To Karen Sister In Law, SIL Gaslights Her

Advertisement
  • 01
    Product - Posted by u/YenYenMania 20 hours ago AITA for refusing to sell my dog to SIL?
  • Advertisement
  • 02
    Font - I have a 3 year old Pomeranian. She's up to date on all shots. Spayed. Monthly groomed. Well loved and my fur baby. I'm currently almost 30 weeks pregnant (high risk pregnancy due to previous losses and stillborns) so I am being told to take it easy as possible. So my husband has taken over most dog duties for now (walking and such)
  • 03
    Font - Now SIL recently lost her dog of 16years and is wanting a new dog. She asked to doggysit our Pomeranian for the night which my husband jumped at the opportunity (she has a habit of waking up at 3am for a walk. So he was happy to get a full night's sleep) SIL had the dog no less than 5 hours. Spamming us with photos how well she was "adapting" to her house. And asked if she could buy our %3D dog from us.
  • 04
    Font - My husband immediately said no. He said "I know I joke about saying I hate her. But it's just I hate walking in the snow every few hours. I dislike the chore. My wife and I love the dog. She's amazing and so well behaved and loving" Which is true. She has endless paitence with our son. She's extremely friendly and lovable. She's well trained. She just REALLY likes going out in the snow right now.
  • Advertisement
  • 05
    Font - My SIL is distraught saying she needs the dog more than we do. We have a baby on the way and will be too busy for the dog. And that she's willing to "pay 2,000 for the dog and let us visit whenever we want too" We've firmly said no. This dog was a gift from my husband after I had a one of my miscarriages. She's very special to me. She's also good at detecting when I have anxiety and snuggling up to me during these times.
  • 06
    Organism - Am I being an asshole here ? My SIL can't have kids. Dogs are her life. But I absolutely love my dog and I don't want to part with her. But SIL is making me feel really guilty about having "kids and a dog" %3D She also reminded me I also have pet sugar gliders and that "kids and sugar gliders should be enough"
  • 07
    Font - We got our fur baby back. There was a little push and shove needed. She kept coming up with excuses (dog was sleeping. Oh she'l bring her in an hour ect) Our dog IS microchipped and is registered with the town. SIL asked to doggysit "every weekend" but we declined.
  • Advertisement
  • 08
    Font - ArcanTemival · 19 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [44] My SIL can't have kids. Dogs are her life. Cool, she can get her own dogs. Shelters are full of them, looking for a good home. NTA. 8.0k Reply Give Award Share Report Save Follow
  • 09
    Font - mouse_attack · 17 hr. ago Right? This isn't, like, a one-dog universe. SIL has options a-plenty. ΝΤΑ
  • 10
    Head - pizzasauce85 · 16 hr. ago I also think SiL is wanting the dog to “punish" op for being pregnant. Like OP can't have/doesn't deserve both a baby and a dog.
  • Advertisement
  • 11
    Font - crystallz2000 · 15 hr. ago NTA. And never let SIL watch her again. I'd be RUNNING back to get the dog.
  • 12
    Handwriting - RevRos · 19 hr. ago Partassipant [2] NTA. She does not get a say over your much loved dog. If she wants a dog, she needs to find her own.

Tags

Scroll down for the next article

Also From I Can Has Cheezburger?