Pick-Me Girl Shames Best Friend's Girlfriend For Liking Taylor Swift, Claims She's Not 'Intellectual' Enough For Him

Back in the day, we used to shame ourselves for liking girly things. We wanted to stand out to guys we were interested in by being different than other girls, but as we got older, we realized how toxic this mindset can be. We were molding ourselves into being something we weren't just so we could be one of the guys. Thankfully, we finally realized we weren't being true to ourselves, and what kind of life is worth living if we're not being true to ourselves? We know that sounds corny, but it's true. Being girly is awesome, and we should embrace the girly sides of ourselves. Even if some of us don't have a girly bone in our bodies, we still shouldn't shame other women for having feminine interests. In today's 'Nice Girls' post, OP is a woman who has a lot to learn when it comes to supporting women with other interests. The story was originally shared on the 'Am I The A$$hole?' subreddit, but got taken down by the moderators for unknown reasons. Luckily, someone in the Nice Girls community took screenshots for us to enjoy the full story. Read on to find out why we think OP is in the wrong here. 

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    Font - r/ r/Nicegirls Posted by u/DangerFloof94 19 hours ago This gem from AITA. Thinks she's a feminist while belittling another woman.
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    Before we get into this story, we cannot stress enough how important it is for women to be there for other women. If we're not there for our sisters, then who the heck will be? Women who don't follow the girl code are women we steer clear of. We're not interested in being friends with someone who puts male validation before their own friendships. In this particular story, OP is clearly into her male best friend who is dating someone else, which is why she feels the need to shame the other woman for having girly interests. She's obviously just jealous, and everyone sees it. 

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    Font - AITA for calling my best friend's girlfriend a gold digger? Okay so my (31F) bestfriend (30M) has started dating this girl 27F some weeks ago. She's now moved into his house and lives there. This girl is bad news. I've been trying to my bff this but he's too p**y whipped to listen. She doesn't pay rent and doesn't give him money for bills.
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    OP is way too involved in their relationship. Yes, we appreciate honesty from our best friends, but at the end of the day, we're adult enough to make our decisions on our own. Feedback from our friends is something we value but after we hear what they have to say, we're ultimately gonna go ahead with what we decide is right for us. Real friends would support our life choices. If OP's best friend feels comfortable supporting his girlfriend financially, then that's his decision to make. OP shouldn't be involved in the arrangement he decided works for him, and she seriously needs to back up stat. 

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    Sky - When I expressed my concern he just brushed it off saying he owns the house so he doesn't need rent and he can afford bills on his own. When I went to meet him last night for a dinner I saw this shameless woman come in with a handful of shopping bags like she owns the place.
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    Head - My bff wasn't in the room at that moment but I went ballistic on the girl saying she's exploiting my friend and using him for money.
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    Font - She started crying (she's a bit of a typical girl like that) saying she shops using my friends credit card only for "household stuff" and that there were just bedsheets and linen in the shopping bags. Now I don't care as l'd had enough looking at my friend wasting his life with this deadbeat girl.
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    Sky - I let it slide for the first few days they seemed to be together as this girl came to the UK as a refugee a few years ago and I sympathised with
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    Sky - her. But she doesn't seem to do any better. She's not on par with bff intellectually (her favorite singer is Taylor swift for crying out loud) and she seems more interested in cooking than trying to find a higher paying job.
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    Facial expression - My bff's cousin storms in hearing the commotion and starts berating me for making her cry. This girl is kind of the conventionally attractive types so l'm not surprised to see another man defending her.
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    Sky - When my bff joins in she starts crying and manipulating him like those types of women do and he turns on ME! He says I'm lucky l'm a girl or else I wouldn't have walked out on my two legs.
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    Sky - I CANNOT believe my ears. This girl has changed him. He hated fairy lights and the color pink and now this girl has painted his living room wall in an awful pepto bismol pink and strung fairly lights on the backyard. She's living there for free and brings NOTHING to the table (except her body|
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    Sky - I said so to my friend and noted how disappointed I was in him that after years of identifying as a feminist he decided to settle on a live in pr*stitute instead of searching for a partner.
    via u/DangerFloof94
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    Sky - The girl ran in crying to her room and my bff looked me in the eye and asked me to eff off and that we were done. Seven years of friendship and I was gone.
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    Font - Most of our friend group (especially the guys) think I'm right but my bffs cousin, his gf, etc. have all stopped talking to me. I don't believe in coddling my friends when they are doing things that could harm them. Does that make me asshole?
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    Font - karenziggler · 18 hr. ago He don't want you, girl.
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    Font - badgalgigi98 · 13 hr. ago It's giving pick me Imao
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    Font - taimoor2 · 3 hr. ago Taylor swift is a wonderful singer songwriter. I love her songs and I am a late 30s man who considers himself fairly intelligent. No shame in liking any music.
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    Font - mouse361 · 18 hr. ago This girl is 100% in love with her best friend and is jealous as heck that he found somebody else that he wants.
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