Divorcee Decides To Stop Petsitting Manipulative Ex Husband's Dog, He Tries To Gaslight Her Into Continuing

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kalila courban
Apr 27, 2022 2:00 PM EDT

Breakups happen all the time, they're unfortunately just a natural part of life. When there are kids involved, things can get real ugly real fast. Custody battles ain't pretty. Oh, and sometimes the child is a dog. In this frustrating Reddit thread, we find ourselves rooting for the original poster to get her toxic ex-husband out of her life and dip out while she can! 

She and her ex-husband shared a doggo together for many happy years, but unfortunately, when their doggo passed away OP felt that they rushed to adopt another dog and this stress held her back from bonding with their new doggo in a meaningful way. Fast forward to today, OP's ex-husband announced that he had been having an affair, and boom…divorce. But this delusional man really expects his ex-wife to now drop everything to offer him free pet sitting services. Interesting how that works out huh?

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  • 01
    Font - Posted by u/. Daydreamer 2 days ago AITA for not wanting anything to do with the dog after my divorce?
    via _____Daydreamer

    No honey no you are not. 

  • 02
    Font - Four months after my 15 year old dog passed away, my husband and I decided to get another one. We rescued a middle aged dog named Lucy. She was sweet but I quickly realized it was too soon to get another dog and she and I had difficulty bonding.
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  • 03
    Font - One month later, my now ex-husband announced he'd been having an affair for months and wanted a divorce. I wanted him to move out but he refused. In turn, I moved out. I had difficulty finding a place to rent and could only find one that didn't allow pets.
    via _____Daydreamer

    "One month later, my now ex-husband announced he'd been having an affair for months and wanted a divorce."

    And from this point on, his opinion was invalidated. Sorry, we don't do favors for cheaters or a-holes. 

  • 04
    Font - I visited the dog once in awhile. However, it was painful to keep running into my ex-husband. I told him he can have her. Now, a year later he continuously contacts be to babysit her while he is out of town. I oblige because I feel bad for abandoning the dog. But he always lets me know last minute, like the day prior.
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  • 05
    Font - It pains me to be in our old house. It's also an inconvenience because it's a long way from my work and the current place I rent. I finally told my ex that I will no longer be babysitting the dog. He basically made me feel horrible. But my friends think I'm being reasonable. So, AITA?
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  • 06
    Font - Triplicated · 12 hr. ago Asshole Aficionado [14] NTA. Why are you helping him after he cheated on you? Just let him have the dog and move on. I know it's difficult but Stop feeling bad for him. He's just using you at this point. 1.3k Reply Share •••
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    Font - Eastern_Amphibian385 · 12 hr. ago |Certified Proctologist [20] NTA. This seems like an intentional move on his part to keep you in his life. Regardless of intention, it's not on you to watch the dog and totally understandable if it's too much. You made the commitment before realizing the situation. He made the decision while doing what he was doing.
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  • 08
    Font - justme7256 · 12 hr. ago Partassipant [1] NTA-Block his number and be done with him. You didn't take on the title of dog sitter when you got divorced.
    via justme7256

    GN! 

  • 09
    Font - Driftwood256 · 12 hr. ago Asshole Aficionado [10] NTA at all... assuming you guys don't have some sort of shared custody arrangement, then your ex is just using you as free doggy daycare; he's a HUGE AH...
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    "assuming you guys don't have some sort of shared custody arrangement, then your ex is just using you as free doggy daycare; he's a HUGE AH..."

    Mmmmmhm.

  • 10
    Font - LivSaJo · 11 hr. ago NTA. He wants a free pet sitter. Also he cheated so he doesn't get to have a valid opinion on anything in this story.
    via LivSaJo

    Amen, sis. 

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