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Poor Woman On Reddit Has To Choose Between Pets Or Parents

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  • 1

    This Sounds Like A Sticky Situation

    Font - I (37F) am not close to my parents (65F e 67M). One of several reasons is their control and I always hated that. Even living alone, they wanted to control and it took several years (of therapy) to almost completely cut them out of my life and I have lived in peace for 7 years. I don't intend to have children, I don't intend to get married and live together (even dating), so my expenses are with me and my 4 pets (2 dogs and 2 cats). They live a life of luxury, honestly, because I have a jo

    As OP began breaking down their situation, we couldn't help but feel bad. This is a person who is very secure with what they want out of life, and the way they'd like to manage their finances and day to day activities. Now, all of a sudden, the entire balance she's manufactured is at risk, all because her parents can't manage money! 

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  • 2

    What Are They So Angry About?

    Font - Last week my parents called me saying they lost their house (financed and delayed a lot of installments) and asked if they could stay in the spare room. I said that only the living room would be available, they could sleep on the floor (mattress) or sofa (very spacious and comfortable), as the free room became my pets' room. They started to get angry, saying that pets could sleep in the living room instead of them and that it is extremely disrespectful to offer parents, even worse elderly

    Like we said in the title, what the heck are these parents so angry about? Their daughter extended an entirely reasonable offer to them so that they could stay on the couch and keep a roof over their heads. But, instead, they aim to put her pets out. Maybe if they wanted luxury accommodations, they shouldn't have kept delaying those payment installments. 

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    What Do We Think?

    Font - Since then, I've been being bombarded by their messages saying that they're in a hotel (spending what they shouldn't) and next week they'll go to a shelter, because I uninvited them and preferred my pets over not leaving them homeless. Other relatives couldn't help and they didn't bother me either, because they know the pain in the ass that my parents are. I already blocked them, but would like an outside opinion. AITA? Extra: I don't help them financially as I have been the target of emo
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    There Will Be No Escaping At That Point

    Font - Time Highlight89 5 days ago Asshole Enthusiast [7] NTA. I have a feeling that if you let them stay in the living room for a week, they'll still be there a year from now. We'll be reading a post about how you had to move out of your house and buy a new house for yourself just to get away from your parents. It's hard not to feel some pressure here, but it's your life. They did this to themselves, and they had to work hard to do it. Think about all the missed opportunities they had to preven
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  • 5

    Sounds Awful TBH

    Font - Skurtz84465 days ago Partassipant [2] NTA. Sounds like there's probably a history of some kind of abuse and you've managed to escape that toxicity. Despite that, you still offered them a place to stay. They didn't like what you offered and disinvited themselves, essentially. You're not responsible for their actions or the consequences that befall them. Reply Give Award Share Report Save Follow 1.1k
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    OP Gives More Backstory On Their Parents

    Font - 9 Sonodemaisbicho OP 5 days ago I can list a few about Control my life: 1. Every plate of mine was weighed on the scales and I had to eat only the calories to have a healthy diet (always had a normal weight) so I wouldn't become like my aunt (who is overweight). This developed into several eating problems that I still struggle with. 2. Until the age of 21, they sat down every month to discuss every expense and why. 3. I had to weigh myself at least once a week and they had a schedule with
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    This One Is As Clear As It Gets

    Font - Correct_Musician_668 5 days ago My NTA just turned to an absolutely NTA. OP, your parents weren't just controlling they were abusive. Keep them out of your house especially because, as others have mentioned, I have no problem believing they would get rid of the pets while you're gone and force you to let them stay. You've already blocked them, I would keep it that way.
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  • 8

    Her House, Her Rules

    Rectangle - csunya 5 days ago NTA. Did your parents ever use the "my house my rules" if yes, then use it on them. I do not know you or your parents, but I get the vibe from your writing that the parents might be actively hostile/abusive to your family (pets). 444 Reply Give Award Share Report Save Follow
  • 9

    We're Not Crying, You Are

    Font - sychosomatic Blonde 5 days ago 2 NTA. I'm your mom now and I want to tell you some things you should've been told by a parent a long time ago. I'm sorry. I should've never made such a big deal about your food. I love you regardless of what you choose to eat. I'm sorry. I should've never micromanaged your finances. I love you regardless of your financial situation. I'm sorry. I should've never been so harsh about your grades. I love you regardless of your GPA. I'm proud of you for doing so
  • 10

    They Made Their Bed... Or Couch

    Font - Spoopyowo 5 days ago Partassipant [3] NTA, if you have already cut them out you know what they will bring to you and your life. If you are happy and content I say leave them to their own devices. They've made their own choices and I assume those choices negatively effected you otherwise they would still be in your life. Be free bro, don't let their guilt and bs drag you down. 170 Reply Give Award Share Report Save Follow

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