Woman Fuming When Husband Gives Away Her IVF Money To His Friend

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    Human body - AITA for getting back the money my husband took from our IVF treatment and gave to his friend?
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    Human body - To start off I want to say that my husband (36M) has an old friend (33M) that he's known since highschool. they're inseperable and spend the entire week together. like they're really really close.
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    Font - My husband and I struggled with fertility issues for years. we recently started new method (IVF) in hopes to get at least one child together. Note that I saved for the majority of treatment while my husband only paid 2-3 thousands. We saved up for another round after the huge disappointment and heartbreak from failing the first time (that's just how it goes). This time I'd put all the money (including dad's inhertance) and my husband didn't pay a cent.
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    Font - Last week I found out that he secretly pulled out 7k (we had 11k in total). I was completely and utterly shocked I confronted him and he casually reminded me of how many times his best friend complained about his "old junk" car and he decided to "lend" him 7k to buy a decent car, his argument was that his friend would've done the same for him. I was beyond livid I asked if he really thought that was okay and he said that I shouldn't worry and guaranteed his friend will pay us back in time
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    Font - me unhinged and selfish. I told him I saved up some of this money/used my inheritance for this treatment while he contributed nothing even though we're in this together. He "corrected" me saying I'm the one with the problem and he thought it's only fair that I "make up" for it by paying for the IVF myself. This hurt so badly and I couldn't argue anymore. He went to stay with his friend while constantly shaming me for how I treated them both and for the police invovlement like they stole f
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    Rectangle - Imchatterbox - 8 days ago Asshole Aficionado [11] NTA. That was money you saved/inherited. That means you ARE the one paying for it and he DID steal from you.
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    Font - hdmx539 - 8 days ago OP, there's your slush fund, not for IVF, but for a divorce. Hopefully the inheritance is untouchable. OP, you would be T A if you move forward having a child with this clearly and obviously immature not- ready-to-be-a-father man and who clearly puts his friend over you.
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    Human body - roaringphoenix. 8 days ago NTA HE DID steal from you. Don't have a kid with someone you can't trust with money.
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    Font - cmlobue. 8 days ago Certified Proctologist [21] I know this is going to be hard to hear, but do not have a child with this man. He contributes nothing to the relationship - maybe a negative amount, since he is giving away your money - and will continue to do so once a child is born. Take that money you saved and use it to make a life for yourself. ΝΤΑ
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    Rectangle - myglasswasbigger - 8 days ago Asshole Enthusiast [6] I agree and you should put the money in an account that is only in your name and rethink having any children with this asshole. ΝΤΑ
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    Rectangle - irisheyes1997 - 8 days ago Partassipant [1] Absolutely. I had issues getting pregnant and I gave my husband an out. He was the only son of an only son and I knew he wanted children. He told me that he wanted them with me. That is what your husband didn't say. Run. He's trouble.
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    Font - 3rdCoastLiberal - 8 days ago This was disgusting to read. She is the one with the problem? Yeah the problem is him.

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