In-Laws Mock Daughter's Burn Scar, Mad That Their Comments Didn't Go Overlooked

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    Font - r/AmItheA hole Posted by u/aintnoworries0 9 hours ago 16 312 AITA for leaving my inlaws house with my daughter after she told me she was feeling uncomfortable? G I M37 have been with my fiancee F37 for 2 years. We're getting married soon, I've only met her family a couple of times. My daughter "Judy" F16 has never met them til very recently where they hosted dinner to celebrate 4th of july and that's when they met her for the first time. Judy has a visible burnscar on her forehead. It was
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    Font - We got to the event and they talked to Judy and she slowly warmed up to them. Everything was going well til I was dinner time. My FMIL looked at Judy while she was eating and pointed at her scar. Basically asking questions about it which made Judy lose her appetite and start to get uncomfortable. I kept sending my fiancee and her mom signs to knock it off but to no avail. Finally, FMIL then brought up the wedding and asked my fiancee if it'd be possible to "photoshop" the scar out of any
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    Font - Obviously, she was pissed. She called an was angry talking about how I disrespected her parents by taking Judy and leaving in the middle of dinnerand not even "saying goodbye", i told her that Judy was feeling uncomfortable with FMILS comments and questions. She said Judy overreacted and is in need to go back to therapy if a simply mention of her scar caused her to react that way. I got tired of arguing and asked her to give us some time but she went on me and said that I have no respect
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    Font - 54-81 coloradogrown85 - 9 hr. ago 35 36 Asshole Aficionado [17] OH, OP, your fiancee has shown her true colors. She doesn't in fact care about your daughter. If she did, she would have realized that your FMIL suggesting you "photo shop out the scar so it doesn't distract" is hella insulting. If I were you I'd rethink the wedding and that family. They owe YOU and JUDY the apology not the other way around. NTA. 32.8k Reply Share
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    Product - o aintnoworries0 OP. 9 hr. ago Thank you for what you pointed out. I'm absolutely aware of this. 15.1k Reply Share Marmar0128. 8 hr. ago 3 3 3 Have you considered that maybe your fiancee might have put her mom up to make that shitty suggestion? Maybe she is the one uncomfortable with the scar in the photos but didn't want to be the one to say it. In my experience people say shit like that behind people's backs, not to their faces on first meetings. 17.3k Reply Share
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    Font - OldGrumpGamer . 9 hr. ago Partassipant [2] NTA and your fiance's mother needs to apologize, who points to someone especially a child's face and goes "wow that scar is ugly hope we can photoshop her face in the wedding photos." Reply Share 7.8k ... aintnoworries0 OP 9 hr. ago My fiancee justified it as a"joke" saying her mom didn't mean it that way and didn't know that this was going to happen. I disagree because I already told her about how Judy feels about it yet got ignored 6.9k Reply S
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    Font - Kindlycreature . 9 hr. ago NTA. But you will definitely be a giant a hole if you marry this woman who bullies your daughter and lets her parents do it too. 5.1k Reply Share WhizzoButterBoy . 7 hr. ago And let's not forget downplays their behaviour by referring to an interrogation around a sensitive subject and horrible photoshop comments as "a mention" ?!!??!! NTA These women acted terribly 1.3k Reply Share ●●●
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    Font - t coppeliuseyes 9 hr. ago Asshole Aficionado [11] Your FMIL recommended digitally altering your daughter's face in wedding photos to avoid "distracting" people yet YOU'RE the one who disrespected HER? Your fiancée should have stood up for you and your daughter. You're uncategorically NTA, in fact you did a great thing in supporting your daughter. 2.9k Reply Share
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    Font - LynnChat 9 hr. ago Asshole Aficionado [13] NTA. Sadly you just got a glimpse on how your marital life is going to. Wife will make promises and then she and her family will just do/say whatever crass cruel thing they feel like. If this is how they are going to treat you daughter at first meeting imagine how it will be later. If it were me they could photoshop the whole dang wedding. 2.8k Reply Share aintnoworries0 OP. 9 hr. ago I did have several conversations with her about it. I'm now un
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    Font - mrslII 9 hr. ago edited 9 hr. ago Asshole Enthusiast [8] ΝΤΑ Never TA for removing your child from a situation where they are uncomfortable and marginalized by AH Edit to add . Your fiance lacks empathy and basic respect for your daughter. 1.8k Reply Share Clet_30079 hr. ago Mega comment and sums it up in one! 155 In fact I think this comment should be put on a leaflet handed to new parents!!!!! NTA... great parent! Reply Share
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    Font - _neontangles 9 hr. ago Partassipant [3] She called an was angry talking about how I disrespected her parents by taking Judy and leaving in the middle of dinnerand not even "saying goodbye" What about being angry that her parents pointed out, AT THE DINNER TABLE DURING THEIR VERY FIRST MEETING, a feature on your daughter's face, that happens to be a major insecurity, and suggested to digitally alter it to better suit the photos? Like WTF If she really cannot see the issue here, and is sayi

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