'How Dare You Spend That Much Without My Permission?’ : Mega Rich Woman Buys Niece Ridiculous Christmas Gifts Amounting to 4K, Sparks Drama With Family

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    Font - AITA? I bought my cousin's daughter a $4K gift for Christmas and ended up spending more on her than her mother did. AITA for not checking with her mother first? I happened to marry into a family with an insane amount of money. More than they know what to do with, quite honestly. I spent approx. $15k per child for my three children for Christmas, which I am immensely grateful to be able to spend on them. I also donated the same amount to a charity of each child's choice, as well. My mom's
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    Font - unique, not really thinking about the price, but more what I think they would like. My cousin (35M) has a fourteen year old daughter. She is the result of a one night stand, so most of us in the family have only met her mother a handful of times and for only a few minutes. My daughter is also fourteen and two parts of her Christmas day gifts were a Cartier Love Ring and a YSL purse. I bought the same for my cousin's daughter, as they are very close and I thought she'd really like it. My c
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    Font - I genuinely didn't think about the cost of the gifts, just more what I think a fourteen year old girl would really like, especially considering I have a fourteen year old daughter myself and know what they like. My cousin's daughter's mother is really upset with me because she feels I made her look bad to her daughter, but I only ever intended on getting her daughter gifts I thought she'd like. AITA?
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    Font - Oxfordcomma42 - 14 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [37] YTA. "I'm too rich to understand why the poors would get angry with me spending thousands of dollars on gifts for their children." Yes, my friend, you should ALWAYS run gift ideas by parents. If it's not something small (think less than $20), it's always a good idea to run it by the parents to make sure they're ok with such a purchase AND to make sure they don't already have it. In some cases, parents may have punished a child For bad be
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    Font - TheClassyWomanist· 10 hr. ago · edited 4 hr. ago 2 & 7 More This is such a bitter thing to say. I doubt she did anything maliciously. This whole comment reeks of bitterness and jealousy. Edit: The sheer number of people calling you an narcissist simply because you are rich is insane to me. I can't stand men who call women they are jealous of (or are doing better than them) a narcissist. I have seen the most vile comments sent to OP and even some slot shaming too. It's pathetic and ridicul
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    Font - of wealth is accumulated (especially the billionaires.... I don't really have issues with millionaires) but I don't think it's fair to call you a narossist for using the money that's accessible to you. I grew up similar to you (private schools, traveling and expensive gifts). My dad came from nothing and wanted us to have the best. And girls in my private definitely did want designer stuff when they were 14. One of my friends was asking for a Chanel bag on her birthday and her mom got it.
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    Font - Edit!!!! - OP forgot to add context to her post which is very important and she's added them to the comments, but since most people won't see that, I'll add them to my comment. In one of her comments, OP mentioned she grew up rich herself (went to 80K private schools and vacated 2 a year). She just married into a family richer than her. So regardless of her marriage, she was always going to be rich. If you read her comments, her niece has a HORSE. So she's used to expensive gifts. Her fat
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    Font - AITAobsession - 10 hr. ago Going against the grain - NTA. You are definitely living in a bubble but essentially got twin gifts for your daughter and her cousin who you say are close. Her mother overreacted because she's insecure about the amount of money you spent. Most of the comments seem to be jealousy and bitterness as well. Let me assure you, if anyone were to buy my daughter such lovely gifts, I'd simply be jealous that I didn't get them too! Reply Share 4.1k
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    Font - hdhxuxufxufufiffif 11 hr. ago Even without the discipline angle, getting an expensive gift like that is out-of-touch because who wants the stress and responsibility of looking after items worth thousands? 149 Reply Share mostlysandwiches - 6 hr. ago Ah yes. Poor kids should know their place and not receive anything expensive so it doesn't hurt the parents feeling. 125 Reply Share

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