Dude Abandons Girlfriend At Restaurant After Upsetting Her With Misogynistic Joke

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    Font - AITA for walking out of a restaurant on my GF? Asshole GF and I were having dinner at a restaurant when she got a text from her best friend (who recently gave birth), and she said "omg she got a C section." she works as a nurse so she then explained to me the type of incision they make for that and how it'll leave a scar. I then, as a joke, said "at least she'll still be tight down there." My GF looked confused and then said that was a weird comment to make about her friend. I then said i
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    Rectangle - Top_Manufacturer8946 23h • 19 Awards YTA for the joke, YTA for thinking it's a normal thing to say, YTA for calling your gf insecure, YTA for getting frustrated and storming off, YTA for leaving your gf without a ride, YTA for turning your phone off and YTA for posting here and making me read your bullshit ... Reply 22.7k
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    Font - idontcare8587 . 1d Asshole Aficionado [11] YTA. What the actual fuck. You're disgusting. Reply 3.8k cathysaurus. 18h Literally exactly what I said when I finished reading the post. OP, you are disgusting. I hope that woman leaves you. Even if you IMMEDIATELY get your shit together and become a better person, the way you spoke about her friend and then treated her for being appalled at your completely appalling behavior is unforgivable. ... 572
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    Font - cinnamngrl 1d Professor Emeritass [71] YTA, your joke was normal for misogynists. You punished her by stealing a ride that she had a right to have. If you wanted time away, you should have left the car keys for her. Reply 5.1k Sunny Daykae. 23h Honestly, if my man left me stranded at a restaurant, he'd be my ex before he made it home. ... 2.3k
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    Font - YTA. jogam. 1d Asshole Aficionado [15] 1. Your joke was in poor taste. 2. Driving someone somewhere and then ditching them there is a low blow. If I dated someone who ditched me at a restaurant and I had to get an Uber home, I would break up with them. The irony is that you said that your girlfriend is insecure, but it sounds like you are insecure because you can't handle reasonable criticism of a tasteless joke. Reply 2.7k ↓ ...
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    Font - Aim-Rich 1d ● YTA. Don't talk about other people's private parts. Your girlfriend was obviously concerned for her friend, and you go making a joke about "at least she'll stay tight"? And then you didn't understand why she was upset, AND YOU LEFT HER THERE?? Men like you are the reason women have been getting the very painful and unnecessary 'husband stitch'. Try being less of a misogynist. I hope she dumps you. ... Reply 10.9k
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    Font - Electrical-Date-3951 21h "I then, as a joke, said "at least she'll still be tight down there." Imagine your SO telling you their friend just had major surgery and you make a joke about the state of said friend's vagina and the implication of it still being useful to a man.... I hope this isn't real since there is zero self awareness. If OP's revolting comment wasn't bad enough, he then double downed, insulted his GF, and then abandoned her at a restaurant.... Of course he was an AH. (The
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    Font - Caspian4136. 1d Pooperintendant [52] YTA on many levels. Your "joke" was crude and totally uncalled for, but misogynists don't care about being sexist, do they? Then you had to double down on your girlfriend with a medical degree, of course you know more than her! As if all that wasn't enough, for added relish you walk out on her and turn your phone off. I hope by now she's packing up her stuff to leave your ass. Reply 3k
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    Font - missnailitall. 18h 1 Award That's the part that's the craziest to me. She's a NURSE! How could he even think he knows more than her on this? Or that she wouldn't call him out on an out of line, totally medically inaccurate comment? G 381
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    Font - krankykitty 1d Colo-rectal Surgeon [40] ● YTA Your gf's best friend has major surgery which is only performed when either the mother or child is in danger and your mind can only think about the father's future sex life??!!?? For that alone, YTA. For how you handled the ensuing discussion, where clearly your gf got the better of you, and then your childish sulking off and leaving her stranded, again YTA. As for your gf, after this display of alpha misogyny, she may not be your gf much long
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    Font - Strong_Letter_7667 • 23h Partassipant [1] No woman on Earth finds this funny. A tip for your next relationship ... slendernan 21h RubrumAequitas . 22h May he never be in another relationship. ... Reply 2.3k ... 947 He should never subject his presence on another woman. Ever. 306
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    Font - General Insurance852 1d Asshole Enthusiast [7] What's funny is you are the insecure one. Not her. You didn't want to be called out on your bad behavior and reflect if you were in the wrong. And like a true misogynist you think your toddler tantrum ditching her was justified due to her nagging (which most times is just women calling out men on their shit) ... Reply 797
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    Font - etds3 23h Colo-rectal Surgeon [35] 9 Awards In no world is that a normal "joke" OP. 1 - it's really weird to comment on the vagina of a woman you aren't sleeping with. 2 - FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY, A WOMAN'S BODY IS NOT JUST FOR MEN'S SEXUAL PLEASURE! This friend just had major surgery. She had a 6 inch incision, (edit: they went between) her abdominal wall and cut her uterus and 5 other layers of tissue. I think my uncle had a smaller incision for his kidney transplant. And your
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