'I was losing sleep and my mind': Noisy neighbors catch payback in the form of malicious compliance after years of gaslighting the resident next door

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    Mammal - Posted by u/living_the_dweam 13 hours ago Nothing wrong with your noise? Let's see how you like it when you have a baby.
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    Font - I live in an 80s style duplex building made of concrete cinder block bricks and moved in here mid-2016. My neighbor has a mirror of my apartment, they are both two levels with a gallery staircase in the middle, I love it here so much. But my neighbor, oh my God.
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    Font - We actually used to get along alright and that was mostly because I like to keep the peace. But he loves having every door and window of his home open and I live in a part of the world that is hot and humid for about 3/4 of the year. We also live right by a busy road. This wouldn't be that much of an issue but his music and movies have to compete with the outside noise as well as the noise from his fans - he refuses to use his air-conditioner.
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    Font - The result, even at low levels, is a booming bass in some of my rooms due to the resonance. It drives me crazy and this could happen at any time of the day or night. I was losing sleep and my mind and at my wit's end.
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    Font - We finally well and truly fell out about a year ago. I had tried asking, begging, pleading, passive aggression, every avenue had been exhausted by this point. I convinced him to come over to my house and just listen so he can hear for himself what I'm talking about and thought surely he would realize that he needs to stop, or at least seriously adjust his sound settings.
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    Font - He said there was absolutely nothing wrong and so I decided to change tack and increase the levels of my own system - much better than his - to roughly where his was and we went there and again, he said there was nothing wrong and that he wasn't going to change anything.
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    Font - was told that my sound wasn't able to be heard at their place and that that I could leave the levels as they were and would just have to live with whatever sound came out of their home.
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    Font - At this point I also started searching for phrases like "narcissist or just a-hole" to try to figure him out. Anyway, cut to a few months ago. I noticed he had some old baby stuff on his patio... in the following months I see his girlfriend with a definite baby bump. By now I bet you can see where this is going...
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    Font - This past month my neighbour and his girlfriend have welcomed an adorable little screaming baby which I can't hear from my place at all, thankfully! But apparently they absolutely can hear sound coming from my place
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    Font - They knocked this week and I greeted them with a big smile and congratulations. They told me they are getting no sleep at all and they're at their wit's end. They asked, begged and pleaded with me to turn my sound system down and I reminded my neighbour that my sound wasn't able to be heard from their house and even if they could hear my sound they can just live with it.
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    Font - I might reduce the settings slightly, once I know for sure that a lesson has been learned and I'm well aware that this would fit in AITA and Petty Revenge, but I thought I'd give it a go here.
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    Product - tofuroll +3 14 hr. ago lol, they said they couldn't hear the noise from your place. They can't go back now.
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    Font - Bartholomeuske 7 hr. ago Babies love to sleep during the day. Time for baby shark between 8am and 4pm
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    Smile - ActualInteraction0 5 hr. ago Weaponising baby shark is the best possible use for it.
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    Rectangle - TheTeslaMaster 4 hr. ago I'm still convinced weaponizing Baby Shark is against the Geneva convention...
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    Yellow - +2 15 hr. ago Golden Rule: Treat others as you would want to be treated. Iron Rule: Treat others as they treat you. Neighbor fulfills both of these. You're NTA. Zoreb1
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    Font - RandomBoomer +2.3 hr. ago My local 7-11 store was plagued by drug dealers loitering outside the store, waiting for customers. Solution? They started playing opera on the store music system, piped out to the street side as well. Loiterers vanished.
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    Rectangle - CrazieCayutLayDee +2.6 hr. ago It was "Seven Nation Army" played on repeat with the subwoofer attached to the connecting wall that helped a friend put a stop to the never ending cp next door to him.
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    Human body - vandelay714. 2 hr. ago Should've left for work without shutting the alarm.
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    Gesture - _dead_and_broken 1 hr. ago +3. Hi, Satan! Big fan of your work!
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    Font - TechnologyExpensive 8 hr. ago Noise? What noise? I can hear no noise from my house, but by c t my movies, sports and music - it is just like being at the live event. You did well and karma really is true in this instance, well done, keep that sound system rocking. Killing in the name by Rage Against The Machine is a very tender lullaby around 9.50pm most nights too,
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    Eyelash - They knocked this week and I greeted them with a big smile and congratulations. They told me they are getting no sleep at all and they're at their wit's end. They asked, begged and pleaded with me to turn my sound system down and I reminded my neighbour that my sound wasn't able to be heard from their house and even if they could hear my sound they can just live with it.

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