Women Get Vulnerable and Open Up About Their 'Undateable' Qualities

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    Font - Posted by u/Fun_Butterscotch3303 16 hours ago Ladies, what's hard about dating you?
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    Font - buttonsarethebomb 16 hr. ago Trust issues from trauma, mental health issues, my jokes are terrible but I think they are amazing. Also I do finger guns a lot.
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    Font - CrystalQueen3000 · 16 hr. ago I'm guarded, introverted and naturally suspicious. It can take a while before my walls come down.
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    Font - noorichee 16 hr. ago ● i expect a lot and put in a lot. i like to spoil my man, buy him things, take him on vacations, all that, but i also expect the same energy back. its not for everyone, but i despise a low effort relationship. i want to prioritize and be prioritized
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    Font - lessergoldfinch 16 hr. ago. edited 14 hr. ago I'm married to my art. Like I wear a ring on my right hand that means I will never abandon my passions for a relationship. Anyone who's with me has to accept that it's not just a hobby for me, it's part of who I am.
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    Font - EcoAffinity 16 hr. ago ● I am very independent and don't easily rely on others. I expect the same of partners and as soon as a guy shows ineptitude in something I consider a basic skill, I easily jump to "Ew, grow tf up and be better, bye." I think it's what the kids call "the ick". I'm working on being a more empathetic person.
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    Font - MAK3AWIISH 14 hr. ago A lot of my dating stories start with, "okay but he's a grown ass man and he didn't know how to xyz."
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    Font - Snowbunny1230 13 hr. ago THIS!! I almost left my now ex on the side of a mountain in Pennsylvania because he couldn't read a map and caused us to travel 4 hours(one way) out of our way. And we had GPS on our phones! Our kids being in the car is the only reason I didn't throw him out and continue on my own.
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    Font - lavender-pears 13 hr. ago · Maybe I'm just agreeing because I feel the same way, but I don't think you lack empathy! You just expect your adult significant other/romantic interest to be, and act like, an adult. I tell every guy I start seriously seeing that I'm not interested in becoming their mother.
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    Font - Eats Beef Steak · 12 hr. ago I think there's a difference between acting mature, and not knowing a skill that might seem basic to another. And empathy lies in understanding that as long as a person is willing to learn, then they're also mature. But if you reject someone, or "get the ick" because they don't know something you consider basic, then I'd say you've lost both empathy and maturity yourself.
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    Font - CPolland12 16 hr. ago I overthink EVERYTHING and can be stubborn
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    Font - Ok-Diamond-4227 · 15 hr. ago I don't need you. Men like to feel needed and nobody treats me better that I treat myself. I take myself on vacation, concerts, dance classes, massages etc. Men think they are in competition with other men when in reality they are in competition with my peace. If you don't bring me peace than I will happily leave and continue to remain alone because I like me and my company.
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    Font - beelovedone. 15 hr. ago I don't care how good a man you are, I'm gonna always assume you'll cheat given the opportunity. I've just known way way way too many guys that claim to be happily married/engaged/in a relationship and still cheat simply because they had the chance to.
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    Font - Maybe it's toxic, idk. I don't assume he IS cheating, I just assume it's not beneath him lol
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    Rectangle - TattooPuddle 16 hr. ago I'm slow to trust people that are new to me and have a low tolerance for bullshit

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