‘I don’t think I should have to put my life on hold': Parents implore their son to delay proposing to his girlfriend; determined loverboy finds wholesome support online

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    Font - TWO TAKE r/TwoHotTakes Posted by u/Throwaway_account661 19 hours ago My parents want me to delay proposing to my girlfriend and they are both mad I said no to that AITA
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    Font - I am going to propose to my girlfriend on Friday. I mentioned it to dad and stepmother because they invited me and her over for dinner Friday night and I reminded them that it is our
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    Smile - anniversary and said I was going to propose. Their reaction threw me off because they were both happy for me but they also asked me to delay my proposal. They
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    Font - said it is because of one of my sisters. They said she is hopeful about getting engaged soon and I should wait until after that before I propose. My mom and stepfather also feel the same way.
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    Font - That sister is in a relationship. However they have been together for 9.5 years. They have a son and a daughter. They own a condo and a business together. But they aren't married. My sister's
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    Font - partner says he is fine without being married and he feels he doesn't need a piece of paper for their relationship to be real. He's been clear he doesn't want marriage. My sister on the other
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    Font - hand really wants to be married and to have a wedding. I don't think I should have to wait. Firstly I don't believe a proposal is "imminent" like my dad and my mom said. Secondly I don't think I
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    Font - should have to put my life on hold just for my sister's life and I don't think her being upset about me getting married when she isn't is on me. My sister has more money
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    Font - than I do, she has a loving partner and beautiful, healthy kids. If she is upset about me getting engaged she needs to look at herself.
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    Font - I told my dad and my mom I'm not putting anything on hold and I don't care if news of my engagement will upset my sister. They didn't take it well
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    Font - even if they reiterated how happy they are that I'm proposing. They want me to reconsider.
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    Font - lowkeyhobi 18 hr. ago Your sis been waiting 9.5yrs? She ain't getting that ring, even if she begse You good. Congratulations!!
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    Font - Xeni966 15 hr. ago If she's been waiting 9.5 years and he said he doesn't need paper to prove it, why the would anyone think that's going to change anytime soon lol
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    Font - And while I don't know the laws behind it at all, some states and countries have common law marriage where living together long
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    Organism - enough can be considered married, in a sense? I'm not a lawyer and can't say I fully understand it. That ring isn't coming anytime soon, OP can safely go for it
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    Human body - blondechcky 10 hr. ago Seems like she just wants the wedding
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    Font - bienie2019 10 hr. ago Why buy the whole cow when she gives you everything for free for the past 9.5 years? Why fix it when it ain't broke after 9.5 years?
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    Font - Bella_Hellfire • 15 hr. ago Yeah, I was with a guy for nine years who kept dangling a ring as a distant, someday thing. He married the next one, as did I. He proposed after five months.
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    Font - . Ashelia_Dalmasca · 8 hr. ago Never say never My partner proposed to me like last month after nearly 16 years together a But I'm with you, if OP wants to propose its "good to go"
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    Font - Iam Luann 10 hr. ago And don't lend her fiance the ring you bought for your proposal. Don't tell your sister either just propose. And be happy.
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    Font - Mag-NL 11 hr. ago And it seems like she herself hasn't proposed either so it isn't that important to her either (though admittedly it's possible she did, he said no and they didn't inform anyone)
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