'Fine, do your job then': HR puts a stop to employee's office tradition of bringing in bagels from family-owned business due to ‘HR policy’

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    "HR said it's their job and to stay out of it, so I did..."
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    HR says I can't bring in bagels [PA] Workplace Issues
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    My folks own a bagel shop. My whole life I brought bagels. My birthday? Bagels. Potluck? Bagels. Holiday? Bagels. We're bagel people. Brought them to class all the time as a kid. Everybody loves bagels. So, when I started working I started bringing in a couple dozen bagels every Friday, in a nice little. box. I get them for free, I get to see my folks once a week, the people get free bagels. Nobody's ever complained.
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    Then I started working at this new office. I bring in bagels, everybody's happy, then HR calls me in. She tells me that I'm not allowed to bring bagels because providing office snacks is "HR's job." What the f k? I told her they're free, I'm not buying them with office money. She's says it's not the point, that it's not my job. I'm like fine. I won't bring in bagels. Maybe someone's allergic to good food or something.
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    Cut to Friday, this same lady brings in bagels. But the grocery store kind. Like Sara Lee hr ∙hit. I haven't even told anyone about it. Didn't say a thing. So they come to me asking why the bagels changed. They're complaining because grocery store bagels are dry garbage. I said I didn't know anything about it. Then get this, the next week the lady brings in bagels from my folks' shop. Same box!
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    I guess it's fine because now my family's getting paid and people get decent bagels again but what the hell? I was happy to bring in the bagels. Why's HR the only ones allowed to bring in bagels?
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    puppuphooray. 2 days ago That's so funny. Does the HR lady know that the bagels they bring in are from your family's store? 497 Share Weakness_Weekly OP 2 days ago I never said anything. I told her they were free, she said "no more," so I said no more. It is the only shop nearby so I guess I schemed her into it. 551 Share
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    puppuphooray - 1 day ago Thats extra funny. She really played herself. She has to do extra work to get the bagels, spend extra office money, and your family gets her business. Just because she was probably jealous of the attention your bagels got. I would never say anything about those new bagels being your family's business. She might just go elsewhere to spite you. 395 Share
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    PurpleStar1965 - 2 days ago I'm d ing. Because she is soooo ridiculous. But when she brings in your folk's bagels please enjoy the heck out of eating one. ↑ 1.1k Share
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    noinnocentbystander 2 days ago Wait, this is actually hilarious. Now your parents got a new paying customer for bagels they were already going to give away for free AND now the company has less money in the budget because of it. Classic "this isn't the win you think it is" caused by ego 198 Share
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    D Dweali 2 days ago Less of an HR issue and more of this one person's own hang-up. Personally I'd just try to find amusement in the situation 395 Share
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    notevenapro 2 days ago Because HR lady is using company money to bring treats in and it is "her" thing. Weird TBH. I would just bring my own bagel in every Friday so I did not miss out on stopping by to say hi to your parents. 157 Share
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    UESfoodie 2 days ago PHR People like this make me embarrassed to say that I work in HR. You don't have a real HR person. You have a glorified admin who is called HR. ↑ 71 Share
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    Estimate Agitated224 2 days ago Ugh been in HR 20 years it took a long time to stop being seen as the snack people. 83 Share Conehead1 1 day ago Likewise. When I first took an assignment in HR my old teammates said, "Have fun with the birthday cake and paper hats crowd!" 13 Share
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    MeatofKings 2 days ago If I told my employees they couldn't bring in and share food, they would find a way to get my a 's fired, and more power to them. Who the hell k Ils the little things that bring joy to an office. Sorry you're on a diet, not sorry. 27 Share
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    Resident-Tea7128 2 days ago HR Manager Thank you for being kind and generous and I wish I worked with you. I personally can't eat too much starch, so would probably eat 1/4 of a bagel, but knowing you a gesture like this brightens up most people's day is enough. Honestly that HR person is just making a "power move" (a ridiculous one)... 18 Share
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    Bohs_n_Os 2 days ago Congrats you have an insecure woman in HR feeling threatened and usurped. You can keep brining in bagels and spend your workdays fighting a petty tyrant or you can do what the queen says and stop bringing in food. Hey your family is getting paid now! At least they're from the same shop. ↑ 56 Share
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    yeah_right_4685 - 2 days ago This isn't an HR issue. This is a your-HR-person-is-a-child issue. Take comfort in the fact that her immature need to be liked will make your parents money. 27 Share
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    Turbulent-Pipe-4642 2 days ago You made the HR lady look bad. She wanted to be the one to do something that the staff would appreciate. That's why she put a stop to it and then "stole" your idea, so she can take the credit. If she wants to spend company money at your parent's bagel shop it's good for them. She's a very insecure person. 12 Share

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