‘The group chat went silent’: Girlfriend takes to Whatsapp to call out ‘friend’ who keeps flirting with her boyfriend

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Elna McHilderson • Managing Editor
Feb 22, 2024 11:00 AM EST

If you can't stand the heat, you shouldn't have flirted with the married chef. 

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  • Listen, we're not dramatic, but does that mean we don't live for the drama? No. Of course, we live for the drama! We eat that up like lollipops at the doctor's office. The most recent drama story that we're enjoying? One about a girlfriend who took to a friend group chat to call our her “friend.”

    This Reddit user reports that she feels like she changed the whole dynamic of the “pub quiz” friend group because of this, but the internet is applauding her for it. Apparently, one of the girls who made the group gets a little too tipsy and starts flirting with people's boyfriends. This Redditor had finally had it one day after the “friend” was particularly too all over her boyfriend. She called her out and the chat has been silent ever since… But sometimes you need a group silence for someone to finally see the plunders they're doing. See what went down below! 

    Or maybe this is a relationship red flag? If so, here are some breakup memes of encouragment! 

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    "Am I wrong for embarrassing a woman in a Whatsapp group for hitting on my boyfriend?"
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    Am I wrong for embarrassing a woman on a Whatsapp group for hitting on my boyfriend? I'm on a Whatsapp group with my boyfriend, this woman called Meghan and some other guys. We all met at a party for the first time and she created this group for meetups at the Pub Quiz. At that particular party, she didn't exchange phone numbers with my boyfriend, but told a guy who had his number to add him, and then my boyfriend added me and the other guys. She was already hitting on him at the party (I though
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    My boyfriend did nothing inappropriate and at first he thought maybe she didn't know we were a couple, but I told him that she did because she was complimenting him even when talking to me for the first time ("your boyfriend is so good" etc.). He said that even if he found her lame, he could not uninvite her even if he's the organizer because she created the group. She didn't even save my number to her phone. No idea if he's talking to my bf in private.
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    We were at the pub quiz last night and she was all over him. Never touchy, but giving him compliments about his skills and physical appearance, talking about her upcoming botox procedure, being generally very friendly but you could tell she wasn't like that with other guys. Both my bf and I ignore her. He is very friendly, and he was as friendly with her as he was with the others and that's it.
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    When we get home, I post the bill on the Whatsapp group because I paid and they needed to give me the money back. Meghan says she shouldn't have ordered a second beer because she was "soo drunk" and only talked to my boyfriend about work instead of having an interesting conversation. Or that maybe next time we should all get drunk (my bf and I are sober and everyone knows that).
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    I told her it's fine, I have enough interesting conversations with my boyfriend to compensate for the topics she discusses. She asked me why don't I wanna drink and I said "So that I don't make a fool out of myself hitting on taken guys." Now the group went silent, and my boyfriend is a bit sad that the dynamic of our pub quiz group might change.
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    MrsThmanx16. 16 hr. ago Solid burn the guys are probably all like oooooo000000 1.1k Reply Share A2FA 13 hr. ago Or their girlfriends are all of a sudden asking what she means and has drunky ever played with them. 265 Reply Share
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    Ok_Growth_5587 · 13 hr. ago yeah. She dropped a nuke on that itch! It's always quiet after a nuke. 247 Reply Share Several_Show937 10 hr. ago Yea, they're not mad. I'm just impressed, Imao 54 Reply Share
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    Mountain-Key5673 · 16 hr. ago It's gone quiet because you addressed the elephant in the room 1.0k Reply Share 346 ●●● Not-That Girl. 14 hr. ago The boys are waiting on her next move. It's like a game of chess, but it's girls fighting over a guy, you've just declared check as your first move! Reply Share
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    joazm 9 hr. ago they just opened a separate group chat called: BETTING ON THE PUBQUIZ DRAMA. 112 Reply Share 29 Unpossible 8 hr. ago Haha was just going to say there is def a separate chat going rn ●●● Reply Share
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    midshipmans_hat 11 hr. ago Totally this. The boys love this drama. The dynamic has changed and become way more interesting. 56 Reply Share ●●● dr3schvee 5 hr. ago we REALLY do. If there is one thing us men that are happy in our relationships love, its this sort of tea. 8 Reply Share
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    seidinove 16 hr. ago You are not wrong. She was all over your boyfriend in front of the group, so it was appropriate for the group to witness your "correction." 591 Reply Share Amsterdammert12 10 hr. ago As a man I do believe it's my place to say something in this situation. If I was scared or hesitant I would hope my gf would do it for me. 117 Reply Share
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    OldSoulMillenialMan 16 hr. ago ● Speaking as a guy, I'd be pretty happy with this reaction from my girlfriend. I have had semi-similar "territorial" actions from girlfriends in the past in situations like yours (can count on one hand the number of times, I'm not that desirable lol), they always made me laugh and grin and feel pretty good
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    just as this one did. You weren't over the top or insecure about it. You were the exact right level of territorial. She publicly disrespected you and you publicly checked her on her . No foul. The group will bounce back and they all got a kick out of your comment - I guarantee it. Reply Share 557
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