‘Either back off, or I'll end your career’: Girl Breaks up With Coworker She Dated, He Demands She Continues Paying Rent, She Reveals a Secret to Get Him Fired in Return

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    Considering getting my Ex fired
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    Me (26F) and my Ex (24M) met at work. We were together for a year and half and moved in together. We still work together at our corporate job, but in different departments. When we ended we both avoided each
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    other and tried to make civil as a few coworkers knew we were together. He kept the apartment after I insisted we get subleaser, because he was work late for a promotion and didn't want the hassle of moving. After weeks
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    back and forth we settled that I will help pay a quarter of rent for the rest of the lease. One month after I moved out he moved in his highschool ex- girlfriend from Canada to the apartment. I didn't know how long she was staying and
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    wanted to move on so didn't say anything. After 2 months of her staying here, I was sent a photo that they were engaged. I assume the timeline was speed up because she would need papers to stay and work. I was upset and canceled my future checks for the apartment. Neither of us reached out about it.
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    The next month (march) they got married in a small ceremony on my birthday. weekend. My birthday was a Monday and he got married the day before. At this point we have been broken up for 5 months. I feel like myself again, but that hurt me, but ultimately did nothing.
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    Yesterday he started reaching. out via text about the rent money since I canceled the checks (2 months ago). I left him on read, but this is ticked me off the most. I couldn't believe he would want me to finically support him after all this time.
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    When we were dating he told me in confidence that he dropped out of college and made a fake certificate when he applied to this job (not due to finances, but because he wanted to explore the world).
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    Him reaching out and asking me to pay for him and his wife to live in the apartment we picked out together made me fume. My friends are split on whether I should tell my employer he's a fraud. We work
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    for a fortune 500 company with a prestigious reputation. Some friends say I would ruin his future prospect, others say he had it coming, and a third friend says if it gets out it might me look like a bitter ex. He is a fraud, I am just looking for guidance on if I should do it.
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    Only planning to do this next month when the lease is up and he keeps insisting on the money. EDIT:spelling and grammar. I also added a sentence about the apartment.
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    UPDATE: I'm not going through with it. It's a fun fantasy, but I wouldn't but live with the guilt. I'm not paying him anymore. His wife is responsible for the rent since she lives there. I'm going to let it go now and live my life. I really do hope the best for him and wish him luck, I just got really heated with the audacity of the text.
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    chienchien0121 The only question I have is this: Is your name on the lease? If not, stop paying. If so, send the an email stating why you will not continue to pay. And, look at the lease (if you're on it to see if having another tenant violates the lease terms.)
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    False-Pie8581 And be prepared to sue for the money she paid while the replacement tenant was already there. Doesn't matter if it's fiance or not he found a replacement but expects the money. Courts will see that as double dealing
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    SnowDucks2705 OP Could I? If he takes me to small claims courts, I can show that his new wife provides him money I wouldn't be in trouble or owe money. That's amazing! Thank you so much :)
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    violaleeblues1 Fortune 500 companies have strict HR policies...and anonymous reporting!!!!!
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    SnowDucks2705 OP Yes we have a whistleblower website for employees
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    nursepenguin36 Do it girl. The sheer audacity of moving his fiancee into the apartment and expecting his ex to still help pay the rent? F that guy. + 100 Reply Share SnowDucks2705 OP On my birthday no less
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    ksp1220 Just don't pay, the rest will take care of itself and yes, he's a S ▸g.
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    SnowDucks2705 OP Yes I think him taking ownership of the rent is enough.
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    Dranask You should have stopped paying rent when he let her move in. If he persists in asking for rent ask him for a refund. Regarding his fraud. He'll strongly suspect it was you if you report to HR as only you know.
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    If it's a matter that should have been reported long time past you might stir up trouble for yourself as you failed to report it earlier. Is it a genuine marriage or a residency one?
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    SnowDucks2705 OP 10 days ago I thought she was visiting for a few weeks I didn't want to assume she moved and start unnecessary drama. Only when they got engaged did I stop payments, because that meant an official new "roommate."
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    It's a whistleblower website so it can't be tracked down to me. He will of course know, but what can he do. He will most likely tell HR that we dated and I'm doing it out of spite but HR won't do much since it's a different department and can't actually confirm I was the one reported him. Plus I don't think
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    you can be in trouble for not reporting someone as soon as you know the information. It was from his first love from high school so I believe it's genuine.

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