Welcome girls of the internet. When we talk about love, relationships, long-term everything, we forget that in any relationship it's not just the couple. When you merge lives with someone, you don't just take them on as an individual, but you absorb their lives as a whole. This means being immersed with their friends, family, coworkers. Meeting someone with a family you understand, enjoy, and respect is important. Tension can easily arise with this closeness, but everything should be handled with tact and poise.
What if your husband wants his parents to move in? Yeah…not my idea of romance either. When you're first married, you should want to build your life together, in the privacy of your shared home, without other people living there, even if it's your parents. It can be hard to say no to parents; as they'll always worry about us, we will always worry about them. But there has to be a middle ground somewhere.