'I opened the door and he looked at me, confused': Pizza delivery guy slides note under customer's door

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Remy Millisky • Writer and Editor
May 17, 2024 5:00 PM EDT

This guy was forced to confront a pizza delivery guy… because he tried to give a note to his girlfriend right in front of his eyes! 

Pizza delivery is supposed to be fast and simple. You place your order on an app or by calling the restaurant, the guy drops off your pizza a half hour later, and then you watch a movie while you chow down. It's supposed to be the easy dinner option. Apparently no one told that to this pizza delivery guy, who kept insisting on seeing the woman who lived at this place. 

You can read the entire story below, as well as additional information that u/Pplthrowaway507 wrote in the comments section. It seems entirely possible that his girlfriend has been cheating on him with this delivery dude. Why else would he show up, give a mysterious note, and then insist on speaking to the girlfriend? Maybe he was caught off guard by her boyfriend's presence (maybe he thought she was single!). Other people suggested that regardless of their relationship, what the pizza delivery dude did was way out of line. It was one of those r/AmItheA****** posts that no one can agree on, and until the OP fully reveals what was in this mysterious note, it'll remain unsolved. 

Next up, these workers shared the reasons that they all hate that one colleague, like the guy who can't stop making this "nails on a chalkboard" noise with rows of staples. 

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    AITA for reporting the pizza delivery guy for sliding a note under my girlfriend's door.
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    I (M28) was spending the weekend with my girlfriend at her place. We decided to order some pizza and she ordered from her usual restuarant.
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    When the delivery guy arrived, I opened the door and he looked at me confused then proceeded to ask where (girlfriend's name) was. I said "excuse me" and asked why he was asking and he said nothing, it was just that he's used to deliver pizza to her and this is the first he saw me so he thought she moved. I told him
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    she was busy then took the pizza and gave him money and while I was turning I saw him still standing. I asked how can I help and he said "don't mind me I'm just standing here waiting ". I told him he shouldn't keep standing
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    outside like that and he rudely said it wasn't my property. I got angry but didn't want to escalate so I said this wasn't public property and he should LEAVE. I then went inside and shut the door.
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    10 minutes later, I caught a note getting slid under the door. I went to look and opened the door and saw the pizza guy going downstairs. I stopped him immediately and then read what the note said. He kept calling my girlfriend with her name and said
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    that he was worried about her and how sad he was that he didn't see her this time. I asked if he left this note just to confirm then told him I'd report him to his boss for this behavior. He said this wasn't for me and I'm not the owner of this place so it was non of my business. We argued loud enough for my girlfriend to come out.
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    I told her what he did and she told me to leave it alone and go back inside. I said alright then, but soon as I walked in I called his workplace and wanted to speak to the manager. I told him what that guy did and he promised to take care of it and said that he won't working for
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    them anymore. Don't know if he was just telling me what I wanted to heat but when I told my girlfriend, she got mad saying I shouldn't have done this and escalated by getting the dude fired. I asked if she was okay with what he did and she said no but now she can no longer order from
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    this restaurent as they block any customer that complains. I said maybe good riddance then?. She said I overreacted and had no right to do this when it's not even my apartment. I didn't know what to say but she completely shut down and refused to talk to me except to say I'm being too insecure and petty.
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    Edit | Something else is going on? I don't know but from his attitude it did seem like he knew her well enough to act this comfortably. I tried to talk to him like asking if I could help but he shut me down completely acting like I'm not even there. I wanted to get more clarification from my girlfriend but she refused and I didn't want to pressure her.
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    Also, I doubt that the guy lost his job and also doubt my girlfriend was "blocked" as a customer. As for the note, it was him addressing her directly saying he's worried and that he was sad he didn't get to see her.
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    FFBTheShow INFO Am I the only one that wants to know what he wrote on the note?
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    Pplthrowaway 507 OP replied to The FoulWind I already stated what the note said, can't remember it word for word but he said that he was worried about her and then talked about how he felt when he didn't see her. It's just an overall odd interaction but this note made it seem like they were friends or something though
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    my girlfriend denied having any conversations with him. I wanted her to tell more but didn't want to pressure her and come off as jealous or controlling, you know what I mean?.
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    Pplthrowaway... OP I don't know. His entire attitude from start to finish didn't make sense, though, it did seem like he knew her well from the way he was talking like he was a friend or a family member. I don't know what his story is but what shocked me was how nonchant my girlfriend was in this entire situation.
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    Pplthrowaway 507 OP replied to evieeeeeeeeeeeeeee It is full on stalking if you asked me, his whole attitude seemed off and I sensed some aggression in his body language. Like I never even met this dude, like what is even this?
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    Side note: He looks younger than me but I won't guess his exact age, but my girlfriend is 24.
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    winnie_the_grizzly It's your girlfriend's apartment. Your girlfriend placed the order. It is your girlfriend's relationship with the pizza guy (not implying. anything intimate here, just the routine interactions we have with the minor players in our lives). The note was to your girlfriend. Your girlfriend asked you to drop it.
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    If you girlfriend had been upset by this guy's behavior, I'd say not the ah. In a vacuum it sounds creepy. However, the only time she indicated she didn't approve of this was when you were in a white hot rage immediately after having gotten someone fired, which, you know, isn't when someone is going to say they like someone else's
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    attention. You took it upon yourself to grab your girlfriend's letter without even letting her read it first. You took it upon yourself to chase some guy away. You took it upon yourself to get the dude fired even after your girlfriend told you she wanted you to leave it alone. You LIED to your girlfriend about agreeing to leave it alone. So this didn't happen in a vacuum. Maybe she's
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    been complaining to the delivery guy about her controlling boyfriend and he legitimately was worried about her? I've never even met you and you sound controlling and worrisome to me. If you are worried that someone you loved is being stalked by a creeper and doesn't realize it, the way to
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    handle it is a conversation, not by being even more creepily possessive and scarier than the potential stalker. If you are worried that your girlfriend and the pizza guy are getting too flirty, the way to handle it is with a
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    conversation with your girlfriend, possibly a breakup, not by getting the guy fired. YTA
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    DiggityGiggity8 NTA, I am a pizza delivery driver/maker.... He was WAY out of bounds. And super creepy that he interacts with regulars that way, I am always nice and chit chat, but I never stay longer than a minute or so after the transaction, I'm on the clock and have deliveries to make, I'll see you next delivery
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    computeraims Anyone saying YTA or ESH is actually stupid. He's a pizza man, he takes the pizza, goes to the address, hands off pizza, collects money. Anything beyond that is creepy and out of line.
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    slick1260 NTA People: Men need to call out other men when they're being creeps! Also people: Wow, I honestly can't believe you did that. How dare you?
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