‘We’re pregnant!’: Couple Announces Pregnancy at Wedding to Get Back at Groom for Proposing at Their Wedding

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    (r/ r/Bestof RedditorUpdates u/Choice... • • 2d burying his body back w... AITAH for announcing our pregnancy at my brother's wedding after he proposed at mine.
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    Original Post: April 21, 2024 My brother said he was going to propose at my wedding. I told him no. That it was a day about myself and my wife and we did not want any distractions. My mom lost her . She said that he wanted family he night not see again for a while to be a part of the proposal. I said I did not give a he did it I would have him kicked out. and that if
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    He did it. And my mom said if I tried kicking him out she would leave too. I just remember seething inside. My brother got married last weekend. Instead of a welcome to the family toast I used the time to announce that we were expecting our first baby.
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    My mom was upset but my grandmother told her to sit down and shut up. We spent most of the reception talking to family we would not see again for a while about our coming baby. My mom says I was an for taking attention away from my brother on his wedding day. She got really mad when I reminded her that she threatened to leave my wedding if I kicked him out after he proposed. I have the screen cap of the text messages.
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    Relevant Comments OOP responds to multiple questions on how his wife felt about his brother proposed at their wedding OOP: My wife has been angry since our wedding. My wife wanted to get even after we agreed to have the wedding in my home country and her friends and family had to travel for our wedding and he hijacked it.
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    TwdgandFrozen: So Has your mom always favored your brother? OOP: Yes. Especially after I moved to a different country for work.
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    Update: June 11, 2024 ORIGINAL POST Okay. So. Some bad news and some amazing news. Bad news my brother figured out that we weren't really pregnant at his wedding and he is livid. As is his wife. I don't really care. I know it's childish but he started it. The amazing news. WE ARE PREGNANT FOR REAL. We were pregnant at the wedding but we didn't know. Thanks again for validating my immature and vengeful nature. I guess I have to grow up now. Sorry for the short post but I'm so excited I almost did
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    Relevant Comments StrongTxWoman: | we were pregnant at the wedding You did the deed at the wedding? OOP: According to the doctor we were about two weeks pregnant.
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    ThatKehdRiley: First, congrats for real. Second, I neeeeed to know: how did he figure it out, and what was your mother's reactions? Also curious how long between the wedding and knowing you were for real expecting. OOP: My wife and I are active and post tons of pictures. His wife pointed out that there was no way in my wife's stomach was as flat as it is at over five months pregnant. She is actually just about three months. My mother was apoplectic. But we live far away from most of the drama.
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    OOP on his mother's behaviors at his wedding and how she demanded him to apologize to his brother for what he did at his brother's wedding OOP: She was so angry that I would use an event that wasn't about me for attention. My mom is not "self aware". OOP on where his father has been in during the whole situation OOP: My dad passed away during covid.
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    Gwynasyn 2d I know it's childish but he started it. I fully understand why he did it, but this line made me laugh. "I know it's childish but [says the most stereotypical thing children say to justify a childish fight]." It's so perfect I have to assume it was done on purpose, and if it was then I am just applauding OOP for it. ... Reply 6k
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    SmartQuokka • 2d We have generational trauma for breakfast OOP: My wife and I are active and post tons of pictures. His wife pointed out that there was no way in I my wife's stomach was as flat as it is at over five months pregnant. You would think but sometimes you look normal for a looong time and soon thereafter the bump quickly catches up with you. Reply 1.5k
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    SummerStar62 • 2d I read this when it first happened. My favorite part is when "Grandma" tells his mother to sit down and shut up. I think I was cheering from my chair. Reply 1.2k tacwombat • 1d I will erupt, feral, from the cardigan screaming Grandma knows that her daughter/daughter-in- law is playing favorites with OOP's brother and has had it with her hypocrisy. Justice Grandma! 197
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    pepperbreaker • 2d I will not be taking the high road i aspire to be this level of petty, and OOP's wife sounds just as petty- maybe even pettier. i'd pay to see OOP's brother and mother freak the f out lol ETA: i bet OOP's wife made her body pregnant for real just to garnish some gaslighting on OOP's brother ahaha Reply 1.9k Similar-Shame7517 • 2d You know how they say that wanting to get pregnant can put too much pressure on couples having trouble conceiving? I think this is the opposite, the
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    Sunflower-and-Dream • 2d I am just waiting for the next update with my popcorn... I wonder how SIL will enjoy the egg on her face when she finds out OOP and his wife aren't lying about being pregnant at the wedding, they just lied about how far along. Reply 578
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    Starry_Gecko • 2d I'm a "bad influence" because I offered her fiancé co... She was so angry that I would use an event that wasn't about me for attention. Gotta love a hypocrite. ← Reply 148
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    radenthefridge • 2d There is only OGTHA Their love language is planned acts of petty spite and it warms my heart. Reply ✩ 90 ↓
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    paulinaiml 2d • Both parts are pretty petty, but I get OOP was tired that his golden child of a brother got away with everything consequence free Amelora 2d • ... Reply 232 I can FEEL you dancing In the words of a very smart man "don't start none, won't be none" ← 124
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    chungusnoodlez. 2d I don't think what OOP did was petty, I thought he was just playing by the rules his family set. Also "All is fair in love and war" Reply 92 1 more reply
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    Coollogin • 1d he wanted family he night not see again for a while to be a part of the proposal Why? Why? WHY? Why would anyone want family they don't see often to be a part of their marriage proposal? That's absurd. Cynfully Delicious . 1d Main Character Syndrome. Reply Ĵ 9 ♡

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